guys flirt with me alot and always keep telling me nasty stuff....help?

Question

guys everywhere annoy me with the flirting im getting annoyed wat should i do?

Answer 1

Nothing. You can't control what they do, you can only control what you do.

Oh and ignore what the first person said, because if guys think you are hot, they are going to make some rude comment regardless of how you act or dress.

Answer 2

take the flirting as a compliment to your overall appearance. No matter what you do if you are attractive you will get guys who flirt with you. if you are flirtatious back they will eventually tell you some nasty stuff, but on the same note some guys will tell you nasty stuff if you are not flirtatious back the best way to deal with them is to just walk away, and if any of them get pissed because you are not flirting back then they are not worth your time anyways right?

Answer 3

Simple: get ugly

No, seriously, there are plenty of ways to prevent this if flirting is really bothering you. Generally, flirting is a two-way process, and if you dont return a flirt it will fade away. If you respond with a cold look a guy will be sure to realize hes not helping the situation.

Now if a guy is extremely aggressive and just doesnt care that you find him extremely repulsive, just tell him youre not into him. Guys are simple you have to be simple with them so they understand. If you state it and make it clear youre not into flirting he should stop.

If all else fails, I dont believe slapping is completley out of the question...

Answer 4

Those guys just need to grow up and learn to respect women. In the meantime ... respect yourself and ignore them. Remember ... if they are flirting with you and telling you nasty stuff, they will say the exact same stuff to any other girl who will listen. Don't put up with it ... it's lame.

Answer 5

Just flat out tell them to go away! Or if they say nasty stuff then just say something like "your disgusting" and walk away. If they still come just ignore them and walk away. You have to get a little tight for this otherwise youll have this problem for a long time.

Answer 6

Well, depending on your age, ie: a teenager then the best thing is to report it to your parents. If it is in a school setting then report the abuse to the nearest authority. That is one of their main reasons for being there. You should not feel embarressed about the stupidity of others.

Answer 7

I'm not to swift with the boys and their nasty jokes to. i find the best way is to laugh at some of the jokes, but if it gets to personal or uncomfortable, give them a playful slap in the stomach or shoulder. it works pretty well, but make not to hurt them and tell them to stop after you hit them. they should get the clue. if not tell them to buzz off!

Answer 8

Get over it. Thats how guys are. They are all too flirtacious and thats how it has always been. They cant help it because they dont notice it. If you got a boyfriend that you actually liked then maybe they will leave you alone. (Havent you ever thought of it?)

-kimmi-

Answer 9

well first things first get a man around u all the time then it will stop... second wear ugly and hidious clothing dat might work after dat just talk really loud dats annoying do dat and dat will be a great formula

Answer 10

well maybe you should dress less revealing...unless youre not then i dont know what to tell you....i used to dress in tank tops and shorts and i would get unwanted attention but now i dress with a nice t shirt and jeans and the vulgarity stopped..good luck