A solution so that everybody likes me
2006-06-27 17:49:42 · 4 answers · asked by perplex_shabby _girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, no matter what, "everyone" won't like you ... but I know what you are asking. I once wondered the same, and here is what I have discovered:
Find things you like to do, then practice them a lot and get good at them. This gives you confidence.,
Smile. A lot. When you greet someone, smile. When you wave at someone, smile.
Learn a lot about a lot of different things so that you can carry on good conversations with a variety of people.
Be kind to people. Even if it's someone you don't like, you don't have to be mean to them. Kindness breaks down a lot of barriers.
Be helpful. If you see someone that is struggling with something, step in and hold a door open, or carry something, or pick up something that is dropped ... and remember to smile!
Practice good manners, learn proper manners and etiquette.
Look for something positive about yourself every day.
Say something positive every day.
If you are angry about things, or don't know how to cope with something, talk to an adult friend, a counselor, or someone that can give you wise objective advice. Also, keep a journal or a diary. When we keep things inside, they fester and come out in our words and actions. But getting them out of us, whether by speaking to other people or writing it out, empties that poison from inside us, so we have more room to be positive.
And #1 ... YOU are a wonderful person!! Believe it!! Becuse you ARE!!!
2006-06-27 18:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest of all things is to maintain 'Innocence of youth'. If you can do that then take it from me, you are bound to be loved. Let no polluting thought influence you or polluting wish influence your heart. Handle your stresses so that you don't hurt anyone in thought, word or deed.
Congratulations, You are loveable.
2006-06-28 01:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gr8 Gy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be YOURSELF, pls just show your true personality, you are likely to have plenty of nice and "lovable" aspects that you probably did not discover yet from yourself : in short, just TRUST YOURSELF a little more and BE SPONTANEOUS : less tiring and much more efficient in relationships.
2006-06-28 01:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself
2006-06-28 00:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by looking2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋