my boyfriend and i have just had a lot of problems lately been to the brink of breaking up but its been a bit better the last two weeks. He now on holiday and said last night to stay away for a week and then go stay because itl be better for us. I miss him so much though and am struggling i dnt want to annoy him by constantly messaging him either but it is hard. can u hlp?
2006-06-27 17:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oviously your relationship needs a little space. You seem to really care about him else you wouldn't be struggling so much. Distance is making your feelings for him stronger, continue to give him space, if he truly wants to stay with you, then this distance will be doing the same for him too.
2006-06-27 17:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes problems can be a red flag that the relationship could be coming to an end, especially problems that have trouble being resolved. it sounds like he's distancing himself from you b/c he doesn't want to break up with you, but force you to do his dirty work of breaking up. i'd say it might be time for you to move on or start to find things to do, instead of only being with him. perhaps you should look into hobbies, clubs, or go out with friends more. men like their girlfriends to have a social life too, outside the relationship. if a man feels like he's constantly with you all the time and has no time for himself, he could resent you. if you want to work on this relationship, some change has to happen. if you think the relationship has hit it's peak, then maybe it is time to move on. i think you'd rather be happy then worried and constantly in doubt. all relationships are work and if both people are not willing to work on it, then it will fall apart. good luck!! i know it's hard!
2006-06-27 17:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him the space that he needs, I know it sucks but that is the only way that your relationship will get better. He needs to miss you and realize that he doesn't like life without you, the only way he can see that is if you just leave him alone and let him come back to you.
2006-06-27 18:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been there and done that..I guarantee ya, he'll be wanting you SO bad by Friday
2006-06-27 17:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by projectbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your too klingy
2006-06-27 18:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋