good questions to ask on a first date?

Answer 1

Make it about her - people love talking about themselves :-P
Ask her what her plans are for the future, what she wants to do with her career, does she want to travel, etc, etc.

Answer 2

A first date is an interview. Don't be afraid to be yourself. People don't like to be toyed with and played. If you are serious about having a good time and looking for the right relationship then ask the questions that you long for the answers the most. Life is to short, if the person you are sitting across from isn't what you had in mind then no time wasted. You can't change someone once you have gotten "involved". What questions would you feel comfortable with your date asking you? Start there. If they are respectful they will turn that question back to you.

Answer 3

That's actually a good question, so it seems you are off to a SUPER start. How about asking questions about her interests, hobbies, her most passionate causes, her favorite childhood memory, the funniest thing she ever remembers happening in her High School, her favorite time of day, her favorite joke, what movies make you cry, etc. Just don't fire them off like you are auditioning as an inquisitioner for the Spanish Inquisition. Girls should follow suit and ask guys about their hobbies, causes, interests, favorite childhood memories, etc.

The most important part is not the question, though. It is listening and becoming involved in the answer.Often just one question will lead to another and another and before long, your mental list has taken on the importance of whether to take the first or second left onto a semi-circular driveway.

Without verbal communication, you won't have a relationship. You may have sex but you won't have a friendship. You might turn up as bed-mates but you won't be life-mates until you lay down the foundation and then start building the structure. After it's built, then move in the furniture and take the majic carpet ride. Then it will mean something.

Answer 4

Instead of what to ask, try what not to ask. Dont get to personal, it is only a first date. You dont want to scare the person away or seem to nosey. Small talk works best. And never give out to much personal info about yourself until you get to know the person. You would be surprised what will scare someone off and not return your phone call.

Answer 5

well if its your first date there can be so such thing as good question or bad. You gotta be yourself and after all you r going for a date so that u can know that person better. So don't overdo things and be comfortable and let the other person also share that comfortable space with you. Happy dating!!

Answer 6

Read your local newspaper and talk about a recent issue or event. See if she is aware of anything in the community. Find out her interests. Inquire about places she's been or places she would like to go to. Keep it light and try to be yourself. No sense in pretending you're someone you're not, she will find out soon enough.

Answer 7

Ask how the person feels about children. Ask lots of questions about their childhood. Be sure to find out about their beliefs on religion.

Answer 8

I've got an idea, pick some question from this site to see how she would answer them! I think it might be a good ice breaker!

Answer 9

How much for 30 minutes?

Answer 10

Find out what her hobbies are so u know if you guys would click.
Things that are important to u, find out if they mean anything to her.
Ask her if there is anything she would like to know about u....