yesterday I came here to ask about my GF getting too much into using a strap on in me.
I am straight, never did it untill she asked me fopr months to do it.
Last night I talked to her about her desires about the strap on, ans she told me she loves it, she apparently grew up looking at it in the internet, and always wanted to do it.
I comply because I love her. Well, after I talked to her, she told me she was going to give me a surprise.
Never crossed my mind, today, about 3 hours ago, at home, we got in the B room. As usual began having sex, then, I helped her try on her Strap.... and to my surprise, her friend appeared in the room, she was already there, with a strap on on already. My GF told me to relax, that she was her close friend, and, they both did me.
It was all so fast ( the other girl appearing) that I could not even say anything.
Now I am really confused. My Gf told me that her friend was welcome to do me when she wanted . Am I a toy or what
2006-06-27 17:04:48 · 8 answers · asked by CALIENTE 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She should have asked you first if you wanted to have another woman around and maybe even considered and respected your decision if u said no. I think she wasn't pleasing you at all but herself. You really should talk to her about it. Communication is the key and let her know your feelings on what happened. It's the only way to lighten your burden so 'fess up, k?
2006-06-27 21:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex should be a wonderful way for the two(not 3) of you to share your love for each other. It should bring you closer together and help to build each of you up both as an individual and as a couple. Ask youself. is she looking after your best interest? Is she doing this to you so that you can become a better man and she can become a better woman. Do you feel like you are more of a man when she treats you in a way that many women do not want to be treated, Did she bring her friend in to satisfy you or to further put you in your place(as she sees it)? If she is welcome to do you when SHE wants, the answer to all this seems pretty clear. I would advise you to leave.
2006-06-27 17:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by unicorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used and abused. Unless you enjoy it you need to stop this madness. If you still love her after this you need to tell her you don't like it and are only doing it to please her but it is humiliating that she would share what you do in private with a close friend of hers and to invite the friend to do it to you to shows you this fetish is making her into someone you do not know if you can love anymore. If this shocks her into an oppology and a promise to not do it again then good for you. if not then she doesn't really love you and you need to get out of this abusive relationship.
2006-06-28 02:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if your not ok with all this, you need to tell her! I understand you love, but it does seem like she is using you as a toy, if she isnt ok with how you feel, you need to move on! Its not right, relationships are not a one way street!
2006-06-27 19:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by munkypoo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a large bum hole....I hope you are not in Depends by the end of the year.
2006-06-27 17:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be stupid man!!!! are you the man or the woman???? be the man and be the one with the d**k
2006-06-27 17:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by cbr600rr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let her molest you!!
but do her friend while you can heheheh
2006-06-27 17:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Gui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously just a toy to her.. and WTF?! a strap on?! common mannn! love is one thing.. but anal rapage is another...
2006-06-27 17:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋