Faking orgasms - 3 questions about it:?

Question

If fidelity is “being true”, then are faked orgasms “infidelity”?

If a man enjoys his woman faking her orgasms, then it’s a mute point. But if you tell your partner to never deceive you, how should your respond when you find out you’ve been deceived?

If you think it is okay to fake orgasms then answer this: Would it be okay for a man to commit infidelity on his wife if he made sure she would never find out about it?

Answer 1

Faking a orgasm is wrong whether your man likes it when you do it or not. I don't know if infidelity is the right term... but it's dis-honest to lead a man to believe he is satisfying you when he's not. If he likes your faking... he is lazy! If you like faking... you are lazy... and cheating yourself cuz an orgasm induced by your partner is WAY better than doing it alone!
Get to the point... communication! Girls, we gotta let em know what they can do to satisfy us, if your too shy to say it with your mouth then say it with your body language.. your moans can tell a lot... if you like it, get into it... if it doesnt do anything for ya, quiet down... a man that wants to please will listen to your body and groans of pleasure and might just need a little guidence. You might try writing down what you like in a note and pass it to him if it's easier, like... I love this... but I really would love THIS!
Don't CHEAT yourselves or your partner!!

Answer 2

Faked orgasms are definately not infidelity.
Deception is not a thought in a women's mind when she fakes an orgasm. She only wants her lover to think that he has brought her to the ultimate pleasure point. Don't think of it as being decieved understand that you are not to blame. Some women don't orgasm all that easily.
Infidelity is never okay, even if she never finds out the man knows and the guilt is hard to live with.

Answer 3

you are taking fidelity out of context. infedelity meaning not true in the sense that you have deceived the person you love my going outside the boundarys of the relationship to have sex with another person.

if a woman lies to her husband about whether or not she was sexually satisfied, it's no where on the same basis for comparison.

to the contrary, woman fake orgasams because they
don't want to hurt the man's feelings because their men are
Probably are terrible in bed or they already climaxed and just want it to be over.

would you rather your wife/gf say hey get off of me i'm bored and you feel like *hit?

Answer 4

Fake or no fake, it doesn't make a case for infidelity. Talk to your woman when you're not getting ready to have sex and ask what she really wants. She's being "true" and believe me, it hurts her that she feels like she's having an incomplete experience. Learn what she likes, let her teach you. Stop worrying so much about yourself. Looks like you're just looking for an excust to go catting around, Dude.

Answer 5

Faked orgasms are not infidelity - its a polite way of saying you're a moron in the bedroom.

And they do that to make you feel better - so can you honestly say that you'd cheat on your wife to make her feel better about herself?

Answer 6

I faked so many of them because he just don't know what to do to get me off so why bother the faster it's over the better

Answer 7

You're lucky she lets you have an orgasm. If my husband didn't give me ten orgasms, I wouldn't let him have one!!!

You ought to get on your knees and beg her to teach you and thank her for going to the trouble of faking.

Answer 8

To me, faking it is the same thing as lying, and I don't lie.

Answer 9

god i hate men all you f*u*ckers think about is your self look its simple if your girl isnt likeing sex with you then ask her how you could do it better! DONT cheat on her damn i hate that s***!! we always find out!!

Answer 10

if a woman fakes it ......... its because she wants you to be happy, she don't want you to fell bad because you don't do it for her. you should be happy that she is faking and not saying " you suck"