I love my bf very much and I am sure he loves me too. We have been together for a long time. V sometimes have arguements and he feels that it is not healthy to have any arguements or fights. He got this thing in his head that v might not b happy, though he wont leave me.I cannot live without him and I know that even he cant live without me. I am feeling so miserable. I want to help our relationship and I wanna b happy with him. I can do anything for him...Please help me..How do I convince him??
2006-06-27 16:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by Raddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Set boundaries. Tell him you love him and need his trust. Let him know that people don't always agree. I don't like fighting either. Ask him what he went through that makes him feel the way he does. I went through some hell and that affected my views on it. You just have to establish good communication skills. Get a good understanding of each others feelings. Try reading: Men are from mars and women are from venus.
2006-06-27 16:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you can not communicate with one another then there is a big problem. Relationships are based off of communication weither its fighting or talking.
Maybe the two of you need a break apart from one another.
Some guys don't want to be the one to break things up because then they would be the bad guy in the situation.
So sit back and take a serious look at your relationship and weigh your options and what you are willing to do with your life.
You can't make him change and if you are considering this as a life long relationship , ask yourself if you can live like this forever.
2006-06-27 23:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguements are completely normal any one will say that. it is really healthy to have arguements not every day fights but yeah. my hubby and i used to fight all the time i left him and we got back together and everything is fine we have our moments but other then that its fine im not saying leave him unless you want to im just saying hope you find your answer!
2006-06-27 23:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone argues at some point or another. If you all shared all the same opinions it would be a really boring relationship. Explain that to him. If he doesn't believe you ask to talk to a trusted friendd
2006-06-27 23:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you fight. That is miserable. Sounds like you are codependent which is not a healthy relationship. Read up on codependency on the internet.
2006-06-27 23:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,yes you can help him by telling him to grow up...there isn't a couple out there who doesn't have arguments/fights. We don't live in a perfect world, no-one is perfect. As humans we make mistakes which at times causes arguments.
2006-06-27 23:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a couples counselor. Sounds like the guy is just using this excuse to break up.
2006-06-27 23:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of u should sit down n talk about the problems that u guys r facing...if that doesnt helps, mayb u should start opening up your options...im sure u can live without him
2006-06-27 23:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by capricorn_bay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats depending on whats going on between u two...
no arguments are sign of bad relationship...
whenever people who are on relationship argue, they are making their relationship stronger... but lots of people thinks its not working out for eachother...
just talk with him, and cuddle him for long time ^^
2006-06-27 23:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two should not be together if you say ya'll cant live without each other. But just explain it to him
2006-06-27 23:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋