We have been friends since the 7th grade and I am an incoming sophmore. At the end of the year she started being friends with this girl she said she would'nt be friends with and she said that I was ignoring her when I thought she was ignoring me. So we ended the year very akwardly and haven't talked since. If I should talk to her do I wait till the summer ends or talk to her as soon as possible? Thanks for listening!
2006-06-27 16:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you think this friendship is worth it, yes talk to her. Do it as soon as possible. If you wait all summer, the facts of the misunderstanding may get mixed up and things could become worse. If she's a total *****, you're better off without her. Good luck!
2006-06-27 16:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know what the misunderstanding was that caused all this in the first place. If the issue is still there, even if you both want to be friends, it's not going to go away. You knowing what the issue was and how to resolve it is what will give you your friend back. Other than that, it doesn't realy matter who starts talking first.
2006-06-27 16:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her. Good friends are few and far between. I still speak to my best friend and we have known each other since second grade. (We are now in our 40's) I also still speak to my other "best friend" that I have known since I was 15 and my whole family moved to a different state. She was the first person to talk to me at my new school. Ditto to my other "best friend" (sorry, I feel a little juvenile using the term "best friend" now) that I have known since my first year in the Air Force. I hadn't seen the one since second grade since about 1974, thirty years ago, until about a month ago. I cried like you wouldn't believe and I am hoping we will see each other more often as we live closer to each other now than in the past. Talk to your friend, if it works out you will won't regret it!
2006-06-27 16:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her as soon as possible...When there is no one to initiate the first step which is talking, then there is no possibilities for the friendship to recover.Talk to her...explain it to her and tell her you're truly sorry whether you have ignored her or not..It is worthwhile to reconcile as both of you have face many friendship tribulation and cases like this are truly minor.Don't be afraid. Try your best in keeping the friendship up again.
2006-06-27 16:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Eddy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes luv, call her and set a lunch date, you are young woman, take the time out to hear each out, hug and continue where you left off.. life is truly to short, it seems that you where clost like sister, re-build it and make a promsie that you guys will have an open relationship to talk about anything.
True friends are hard to come by.
2006-06-27 16:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just give her a call as ask her to lunch. An hour of rebonding might get things on the right track. If she refuses, then you tried. I wouldn't wait till school started. If she is a real friend, she'll be happy to see you. Tell her you miss her. Be honest. what is it gonna hurt?
2006-06-27 16:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her an e-mail at the same time with your emotions , do talk about previous good cases and then ask her the reason . if there is something bothering her , attempt to artwork it out. we ought to continually carry a good buddy with both fingers and attempt to unravel your themes if obtainable caz its more advantageous to be sparkling previously regretting for relax of your existence- do not enable or not it really is " the secret"" what has befell ,hummmmmmmm, why it happend ? Do something 2 no longer enable it ensue and artwork on the thanks to keep away from this on your destiny friendships to boot!
2016-11-15 08:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by cathell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friendship can withstand many misunderstandings. If you feel like you have one then yes you should talk to her. How else will things get cleared up if you guys don't talk. Now get off your computer and call her up.
2006-06-27 16:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be the bigger person and talk to your friend. In the grand scheme of things people fall out over so many trivial things. dont loose a good friend for nothing.
2006-06-27 16:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by dreamshop78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to your friend. Something like this should never keep two individuals apart. What ever happened in the past just let it go. Give her another chance.
2006-06-27 16:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋