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how do you when love isn't the option ur given?

2006-06-27 16:14:04 · 4 answers · asked by what u gonna do? 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!

2006-06-29 01:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 8 0

Lust is just a physical thing. You lust after a person you saw on the street. Infatuation is a combination of lust and liking the person, but the lust is so strong that the preson is, to you, perfect. They can do no wrong. Love is when you experience both like and lust, and you know all their bad qualities and accept them. If everything seems too perfect, or if you have to work too hard at it, it's prbably not love. Also, if you're asking this question, it's most likely not love. In general, when you love someone, yo just know it.

2006-06-27 16:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by LSD 3 · 0 0

lust in when you just want to have sex with no strings attached. love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person and infatuation is like having a school crush on someone.

2006-06-27 16:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by nascarchic 2 · 0 0

love is like you'd dive in front of a bullet for the one you love

2006-06-27 16:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0 0

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