Why do you have to be so complicated. Why can't you just let guys figure you out? I mean we would like to know what you want, but you make things way to complicated for us. We just wanna make you happy. Why do you have to make yourselves so complex?
2006-06-27 16:10:13 · 24 answers · asked by Pandora Tommorow 4 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I'm saying from my experience with women.
2006-06-27 16:17:52 · update #1
Some women are complicated because they have problems or they need attention so they become complicated and they expect you to figure it out. I am like that sometimes but I try to make it easy for you guys so I'll give you some advice...just pay attention to your girl and notice little things she does because that is what she really wants and when you want to know what she wants ask her sometimes she'll actually tell you. Anyway we are sometimes complex to see how smart our men are so if you can figure out the girl you got after a while she'll stop being complex because she already will know your intelligence level but then everyone is different. Good luck with the ladies!
2006-06-28 09:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by parchessey 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think we are all different, some woman are more complicated then others. Some just like to play games and to see what and how they can get away with stuff. Some talk a lot and never listen. Some get way to emotional over the little things in life and some don't get emotional at all. Me, I'm 31 and very complicated!...lol...goodluck making your woman happy!..ha ha
2006-06-27 23:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by sxyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are complicated too, you know. Perhaps women overthink things, but men can be so sensitive, but put up a macho front, or else really macho, we never know what to think of you. Espicially when you say "I don't care". Whether it's about wedding plans or what to watch on tv, we're never quite sure if you do or not, because that ONE time you said you didn't care and you did and was upset at us for the rest of the day because we didn't make sure you were okay.
To women, women are simple. Just know how to read our moods: when we're really okay and when we're "fine" (F*cked up, Insecure, Neurotic, and Emotional). Instead of just listening, you have to really pay attention. Do that much and you're golden.
2006-06-27 23:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes were screwed over from the beginning. Men and women have different styles of communicating, I mean even the way we think is different. Sometimes we don't even know what we want so how can we let you know. Plus like in a card game, you don't want to lay out all your cards on the table. =P
2006-06-28 01:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on; that's a cop out. How about you guys who hurt us, don't communicate with us, get angry over things we don't realize we did. Everything is a two way street. I wish I could have a penny just for everytime I tried to communicate my feelings so honestly and realistically, so one of you "guys" would know just exactly how I felt and you would know what I want and you could make me happy. Don't take much to do that, take my word for it. How about a simple phone call to start with. I don't ask for much but the one thing I do expect is your respect in understanding that I am a human too, with feelings. and I want to be happy. Believe me.......
2006-06-27 23:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you stereotype women? Most of us are straight forward honest people. We have met men who play games. They lie, cheat, and are on ego trips. Some will never grow up or be responsible. But there are good honorable men out there, too. Open your eyes and be aware of the good women just waiting for a chance.
2006-06-27 23:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just the way we are. it's hard for us to tell you exactly what we want. for example i know what i want from a guy. i want someone to love me and be there for me and whatever but now i've notice there's no such thing. but it's the way we are and there's no changing us. also why cant guys just communicate. all you guys want is sex. why can't you guys just be a little more honest with US? And tell Us how YOU feel?
2006-06-27 23:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by maria c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like men are hard to decipher. But it takes a real man to know the needs of a woman. He would be willing to undergo difficulties just to win her heart.
2006-06-28 01:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by coolblueacid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's not us it's you men. Women do what they want, when they want, how they want. Men make it difficult for themselves, because they try to figure women out and there's nothing to figure out. We work, raise kids, party. What's difficult about that? It's just life.
2006-06-27 23:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by need to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jajaja..youre cute, thats a Question all guys should answet too, I think you cant think the same about all girls, it all depends what kind of girl you are with, dont become a down with love boy, just look for a different girl next time...we are not complicated, sometimes we all are
2006-06-27 23:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by crazylolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋