2006-06-27 15:31:30 · 25 answers · asked by DAVID D 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She is a highly self-esteemed girl. She is saving herself for marriage. Respect her wishes and maybe get married to her. She wants to give herself to one who wants her and not just her body!
2006-06-27 15:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by mnc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...where do I begin....number one, there is no right or wrong answer...there's just what's right for her and what's right for you. If you are cool with no intimacy for 7 years, then great. If not, then you might want to move on. If what you share with your girlfriend isn't strong enough to warrant that kind of passion after 7 years, then why keep putting your emotional energy into it (no pun intended). If your mutual funds were giving you that poor a return on your investment...would you stick it out for another 7 years??
It's your life and for me personally intimacy with a woman you care about is just simply too incredible to be missed. Somewhere out there is a woman longing for just that kind of intimacy. Go out and find her dude.
2006-06-27 22:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by KERMIT M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her. If you've been together for 7 years, you should know each other by now. If you can get the milk for free, why would you buy the cow?
2006-06-27 22:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem isn't her, maybe it's you. Have you spent time with her, make her feel special, do things for her, help her do house work. Make sure you are clean,brush your teeth, make sure you don't smell bad, dress nice for her.Bring her flowers for no reason. Write her love notes and leave them in places for her to find, like in her lunch, or the pocket of her favorite jeans. Keep her happy, and she will do anything for you.Kiss her and cuddle her, without expectations of having sex. Propose romantically. If you do all of these things, you will get alot further with her.
2006-06-27 22:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by mischa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is right for her. What is NOT right is her sleeping with you because she feels she has to and then regretting standing up for what she believes in afterwards. If you love her you will respect her wishes and wait until she is ready or, if she is saving herself for marriage, until you are married.
All the best.
2006-06-28 14:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Giorgie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since when is not sleeping with someone out of wedlock bad? I have been dating for 10 years and I never let him get past first base
2006-06-27 22:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by astradoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheating on you leve her alone you should of got married ive been with my girl a year and we got married do it quick check her cell phone her e-mail ask can her go were she goes see whoes she going with when your going to work lie then if shes in another room get under the bed see if she is acting wired that leads you right were you need to be if you have to dump her find another
2006-06-27 22:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by king 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like it has been said, maybe shes waiting until marriage for that step. and maybe how old she is. if you were dating through school and your still young, then theres nothing wrong with that, shes smart to not base a relationship on sex. either quit pressuring her if you love her, or ask her to marry you already, what are you waiting for.
2006-06-27 22:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if she wants to marry first. You should have either gotten married or have slept together by now
2006-06-27 22:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Neilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she catholic? are you two married? are two question that just popped in my mind.. some catholics will not have sex until they are married. mymom and dad didn't have sex for about 10 years while they were dating and then the night they got married is when things happened. best of luck
2006-06-27 22:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by littlechicky_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋