okay, i've realized, im obsessive, i guess.. cuz when my friend sean's phone wasn't working for 2 months, i thought i'd never talk to him again and this is one of my best friends, so i ended up going so far as calling his school, and mom's work to see if he moved or died.
now my ex boyfriend robert's phone is not working, and hasn't been for 5 days and i miss him very badly, which once i remember how badly he has treated me i'm like **** him, it looks bad for me to run back after breaking up with him... and i think about calling 411 and seeing if he has a phone in a different city, but im restraining from doing it..
is anyone else like me??
2006-06-27 15:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i think thats why the guys are running from you possiably
2006-06-27 15:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by dave a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun if hes an x maybe you should try to move on , but before you do go rent the movie fatal attraction , that is obsessive totally, but once you realize there are lots more decent guys in the big aquarium of life you will be fine, try not to freak out if you cant talk to them every day , some dudes don't like the clingy type, just take it one tiny step at a time and you will be OK....try to find another avenue for lack of phone like chat room or email or the old fashioned type pen n paper letter, or start a personal journal, that you write in everyday things you like about yourself things you want to change and how to make those changes, soon you wont have things to change coz you will be doing it!! good luck
2006-06-27 22:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Eternal B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my wife. If she doesn't keep busy or around other people all the time, she will sit and obsess about some little thing until it just about freaks her out.
These are not big problems you obsess about, but if that is all you have to think about, then they become big problems.
I'd suggest you do what she does, try to keep yourself busy with craft projects and spend a lot of time with friends. Also, try some volunteer stuff. Red Cross or Easter Seals are the easiest. Just call them up and they'll take it from there. Or maybe you can come up with something else. Not too difficult. Lots of people need help. You'll feel a lot of satisfaction from helping others and you'll have less time to obsess about things.
Also, you might meet some people you can become friends with that won't treat you like ****. Nice people at these volunteer gigs.
Good luck!
2006-06-27 22:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by cdb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...I'm obsessive, but not obsessive in that way. Haha! I don't call for stuff like that. If someone doesn't talk to me, I just get over it. I've never had friends for a long period of time. Something always gets screwed up so I've just come to realize relationships never stay. Once it's gone, I just move on. But that's because I'm a pathetic loser! Haha! Maybe you should move on too. If they wanna contact you, they will. Good luck with that hun and God bless...
(also...I just realized your name says you love Jesus. Maybe you should pray about this...) :)
2006-06-27 22:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your handle says you love Jesus and you use language like that? And what's up with you calling guys? I thought nice girls let the guys call them.
2006-06-27 22:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by waney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, my sister goes nuts when she cant get a hold of a person its likely a normal thing its like if you dont know whats happening it drives you nut like that to sometimes its okay.
2006-06-27 22:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by En. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, try anafranil from your doctor
2006-06-27 22:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Morning Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-27 22:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by dick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋