I often feel that masturbation feels a lot better than actual sex. When I masturbate to porn, it only takes me 0.5-2 minutes to ***. (Without porn, it takes me forever.) But during sex, it takes me at least 5-10 minutes to ***. Sometimes, it doesn't even happen. It's probably phsycological, but I don't know how.
My girlfriend's damn hot, so her being unattractive is not a possible reason.
I also remember that I used to be able to ejaculate on oral sex, but it doesn't happen anymore.
Btw, I'm a guy under 30, and I've always used a condom.
Can anyone provide an explaination?
2006-06-27 15:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by t3h Brian 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
hmm, i can relate to a lot of these answers
2006-06-28 14:34:19 · update #1
you are not abnormal. This is true for a lot of people. It is true that the brain is the biggest sex organ so a lot of it is mental. That is why pron speeds you along, also you may feel guilty with porn or even self pleasure so your brain speeds it along to get it over and done with. Condoms are a necessary evil they dull sensations and will slow you down but actually that is probably a blessing to your partner. Relax and enjoy! Your only problem is you ar human!
2006-06-27 17:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by bjtraders 1 · 10⤊ 1⤋
First of all, what's the time issue? Are you in a race of some kind? Chances are your girlfriend appreciates the protracted activity, because it gives her an opportunity for more pleasure. It is possible--and I'm saying this to be truthful, not to be mean--that you are being a bit self-centered about sex. Try approaching sex with the only goal being to give your partner pleasure, and see how things go. A change in perspective can go a long way.
On the other side of the issue: yes, the situation is probably psychological in nature. If you "over-think" sex, it can be drained of pleasure pretty quickly. In a situation like yours, it is likely that you approach sex with some apprehension, and it is true that "the biggest sex organ is the one between your ears."
If you want quick release and you are having some conflicted emotions and thoughts during sex, masturbation can easily seem more pleasurable. When you masturbate, you don't have to think about the other person, your apprehensions, etc.
2006-06-27 15:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by nickdmd 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
That's why you feel lot better masturbating than having sex is that because you're in full control of yourself and knows how to control the pressure you apply during masturbation and you know the most sensitive part of your dick. Condom can also decrease sensitivity. But if you partner knows how to do muscle control I'm sure you'll enjoy it. Otherwise just enjoy masturbating that safer too.
2006-06-27 23:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by marky 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Google "Your Brain On Porn" for a scientific answer.
2013-10-27 02:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Steve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation feels better than sex because you're doing it to yourself. Because you're experiencing all the sensations, and you are controlling all the action, you can give yourself what you're looking for. This is not uncommon, so don't worry. Most people enjoy sex for intimacy, because anybody can give themselves pleasure. It takes another person to make you feel 'special'.
2006-06-27 15:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
because your hand is the best equipment to manipulate your penis.....better control and grip than any other things
2006-06-27 15:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
have your girlfriend give you a reach around
2013-11-30 08:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by float_on_harmonys_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all lots of things other people said isn't true i am an expert on these things. If that is happening there are signs that you were raped or sexually assaulted when you were younger or you might be gay 30% of guys don't realize that to them sex with other guys is way more stimulating than sex with a woman, also it could mean that you're very stressed out and having sex makes you think about other things besides sex but during masturbation your mind is focused.
2006-06-27 15:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by the_one 1 · 2⤊ 11⤋
sex is way better. there's nothing like a well-hung stud pounding my brains out then emptying his nut sack inside me. makes me dizzy.
2006-06-27 16:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 5⤋
Geeeezz.....
cause the women your with are lousy in bed.
Leave you thang along and get laid by someone else
2006-06-27 15:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Renegade 5 · 3⤊ 11⤋