My girlfriend is jealous of all my female friends and they all live in another state i just moved here so i don't have any friends. I spend more time explaining and reassuring then i ever have in my life i am confused.
2006-06-27 15:18:26 · 15 answers · asked by Youngboston 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your girlfriend can't trust you then you shouldn't be with her.
2006-06-27 15:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some people are just jealous, and there's nothing you can really do to help them. If she doesn't want to be jealous, then first thing she needs to do is admit and accept that she's the jealous type. Then she can slowly start changing her inner dialouge (meaning:what she says to herself when she sees you, or thinks about you talking to another girl) If that doesn't work, then maybe it just wasn't meant to be. But think of it as like, a learning experience for yourself. You now know that that's not what you want in a relationship. Nothing wrong with that. Hope everything works out for ya!
2006-06-27 15:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by serial_brain_killer_with_a_spoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get rid of her. I know I'm the jealous type and I hate it. I would always get after my girlfriend for talking to other guys. I knew it was stupid and she said she loved me and never would do anything like that. I found out she was cheating on me and I ended it. Maybe your girlfriend had a similar experience. Just be patient and show her you mean well. Hope it helps.
2006-06-27 15:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I too have jealous boy-friend. He says he trusts me but everytime i turn around we are fighting. He thinks he has to know everywhere i go, who will be there. He say it's just because he love and worry about me, RIGHT sound as if he is controling. But any I stay and see what comes of it. Sooner or later she will get the picture. Ask her if she as been cheated on in the past, and if so... try try to convise her you're not like that (hopefully you're not) good luck
juggiejones OUT
2006-06-27 15:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her confuse you and spin things in her favor.
Soon she'll have you loathing in self doubt and you not keeping your other friendships.
Stop reassuring her and let her know if she doesn't clean up the drama then she will have other women to worry about.
My advice is to leave while ya can.
2006-06-27 15:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a lot of work!If you are up to it then show her that you care by living your own life.Belive me she will respect you more in the long run for doing that.Woman hate a man who are too needy and depend on them to give support.It should be the other way round.It's nature of woman man!!
2006-06-27 15:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by dev k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is messed up already, you're doing all the explaining and reassuring and she's doing all the accusing. Dump her and find yourself someone who wants a real relationship with you and is willing to give it their all.
2006-06-27 15:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either you make more friends where you are now, or make it look like you're talking to you guy friends or something. She'd be more jealous of the girls than the guys.. =P
2006-06-27 15:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up your friends! That is her problem, and she needs to deal with it! Let her know right off the bat that jealousy is a bad thing & not a good quality in a person. Don't let her make you feel bad! Hope this helps!
2006-06-27 15:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with dede, just give her some time....maybe she has been hurt and doesn't know how to heal from that, talk to her about it and maybe go for some counseling together. Ask her what you can do for her to make her feel more comfortable with your friends....if she says don't talk to them anymore ...then I would say move on....it just depends on what your willing to sacrifice for your relationship.
2006-06-27 15:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by debbienws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only does that cuz she's scared that u might leave her. She doesnt hav any self confidence. Give her some self confidence. Show her that u truly lov her. Show her that she means the world to u. Hope thsi helps! BYeBYe
2006-06-27 15:23:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋