my fiance is curious about this I have not thought about doing anything like this but he wants to be my "submissive slave" he says any ideas or websites to help me shock the hell out of him? and he likes a little pain with pleasure...I am now curious about it something new to try I guess....thanx in advance
2006-06-27 14:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i know he isn't looking to cheat thats way behind us we have a great sexual relationship but we decided to try new things to keep the spice up so we DON"T get bored so it's not like some of you think we are faithful, i do appreciate all the input though....
2006-06-27 15:14:41 · update #1
Let him have a "safe" word, then go at it and see when he folds...
2006-06-27 14:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by cranksinatra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice: don't bother. When people start looking for 'variety' it generally means that they have not put enough into their relationship. If you don't have a satisfactory love life you may not be able to have one with this person. Many people have tried such things only to learn that they become dependent on them and need ever-increasing stimulation to get interested again. They may go from one weird thing to another, from one extreme thing to another, and get less satisfaction each time. It's called diminishing returns.
2006-06-27 21:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by cdf-rom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to clean your bathroom.
If he refuses, then he doesn't really want to be your submissive slave.
2006-06-27 21:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by fcas80 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goto faceparty.com - there's a dominatrix there - you can ask her questions and she might just answer em for you nicely
2006-06-27 22:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by princess_sparkles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋