i have this friend who always talks about.. its lilke shes addictied she has urges to go and do it... she shoves things up there. and im scraed.. is it ok she younger than me.. she only 11.. alot younger then me
2006-06-27 14:50:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i know its nasty i hate her for doing it and i would never do it....
2006-06-27 14:54:31 · update #1
she has a bad guture i think
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2006-06-27 14:55:01 · update #2
well i think she has something mentally wrong with her.. but that is my opinion...i have never masterbated in my entire life.. i have known plenty of women that have but i never have.. but she is just a young girl... i have also heard about nymphomaniacs.. and she may be just the canidate for that...she could really damage herself too... and seriously... well i know you may not want to do this but i think you should tell your school counselor about this or your parents and see if they can tell you what to do, and maybe they can help you see she gets the help she needs.. you would feel really bad if something really bad happened to her....i would be scared and very concerned too.. but try to think who you can talk to , and seek advice and the best way to handle this situation....and do not waste a lot of time either...she does need counseling i know for sure....
2006-06-27 15:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well some people get these urges at a young age...sometimes it depends on the up bringing.Although for an 11 year old to already be shoving things inside her...thats pretty wrong!
2006-06-27 21:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while there is nothing wrong with masturbating..one might think that doing the things she is at her age is from a past incident. People are going into puberty at a younger age these days but that doesn't explain the need to use toys or other foreign objects..if your close to this person find out about her life.if there is any abuse involved,which is my thought, she will need to resolve the issues before things get out of control
2006-06-27 22:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by ambulancechaser_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is normal, usually beginning with puberty. However, if your 11 year old friend is telling you the truth, maybe you should talk to her mom to make her aware of what's going on with her daughter. Inserting objects into her vagina at such a young age may cause damage to herself and her reproductive system.
2006-06-27 21:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes not causing herself physical harm and the object is clean she isnt going to hurt herself. Im not sure why shes so obsessed by it though and i would hazzard a guess she will end up having sex before long and be pregnant by 12. Its rather sad.
2006-06-27 21:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.. as long as she isn't hurting herself a lot then it's fine. And don't hate her or disrespect her for doing it... in not even a couple years you'll be doing it to. Everyone does.. i'm not saying to do it because everyone else does. I'm saying that right now, just don't worry about it.. naturally you learn more about it and your hormones will grow more and you will have really big urges to start and eventually you will.. everyone does, it's natural!!
2006-06-30 21:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's entering puberty.
You shouldn't be scared. Masturbation is a wonderful thing. It allows you to see how YOU and your body works. It's GOOD to explore! It'll help you find out what you like and what you don't. It's your body, you should be able to know it like the back of your hand. Masturbation can feel really, really good, so I can see why she's "addicted". If you have a successful orgasm, you can see why she'd be addicted to it, too. :)
Don't be frightened, it's perfectly normal and perfectly healthy. If you ever feel daring, you might want to try it yourself. It's nothing to be frightened of. :D
2006-06-27 21:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 11 is to young. You shouldn't try some thing like that untill your a little older. Your body is just starting to change. I think it would be more healthler for you to wait . I hope this helps.
2006-06-27 21:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually someone who having a masturbation is a natural thing to do.But just do it with the right way,get some tips from your's parent or doctor.I remember my mum give advice for me on it.
2006-06-28 05:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she"s only 11 then i would ask her if anyone is touching her in a bad way .i dont think thats normal at her age ,and objects up there can cause serious bacterial infections
2006-06-27 22:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by sharon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋