2006-06-27 14:38:43 · 23 answers · asked by Mr.Voltage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I am sure that she has changed completely now that she has met you!!!
2006-06-27 14:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've thought about that before she became your wife...or did you not know then? Should you worry? Absolutely. Although it's not true 100% of the time, there's a reason for the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater". If she's lying to you about it, that's yet another red flag.
There's always the chance she's a changed woman with regard to the cheating...but apparently (if you are sure of your facts) she's prone to lying. Not a good thing...
Ask her what she would do, if she found out the guy she was married to cheated on his former wife, but then wouldn't admit it to his current. Would she stay with him or leave him?
2006-06-27 21:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't start accusing. You are different, and you shouldn't make a woman admit what she doesn't want to admit. Keep an eye out, but don't get paranoid. She'll cheat when all the pieces are in place. If that never happens, she won't take a huge risk, so she's faithful by default (and that's not a bad thing).
2006-06-27 21:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by boogaflickah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she is SO embarrassed by it she just won't admit it ever happened. AND she could think that you don't "really know" and hope that you believe her so that you trust she won't do it to you.
Why do you need her to admit it? Let her deal with it on her own... cheating on a spouse is not something women like to brag about, especially if they are in another relationship.
Don't be worried, chances are she learned a hard lesson and will never do it again. I understand your need for honesty in this matter, but really, will it make you feel good if she admits it?
2006-06-27 22:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have PROOF (not just hearsay) and she's not admitting it, then yes, be worried... not only has she cheated in the past, but she's lying to you now.
On the other hand, if you do not know for a certainty that she's cheated, then you need to have some faith (that's what relationships are REALLY made of) and give her the benefit of the doubt.
2006-06-27 21:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u know for sure she did ,and if yr going too say her ex told u then how do u how hes not lying to u too start conflict between u too ,talk 2 her tell her what u know and who told u she cheated on her ex-husband and go from there
2006-06-27 21:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunshinegal0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should be worried because she might do the same thing to u also. but on the other hand u can be lucky be getting her if she was not going to cheat on ex husband how it was possible for u to marry her.
2006-06-27 23:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by tejinder k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's why she divorced him, I mean, maybe she was unhappy with him and is happy with you now. Why does every woman that cheats has to be labeled as skank? Ask her, if you have a good relationship with her, she will answer. But remember, that's water under the bridge now.
2006-06-27 21:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, she might be creeping now. Do she have suspcious behavior? Do she hang the phone up when u come around? You know the typical behavior of an adultrous. Than again she could learn from her mistakes.
2006-06-27 21:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have valid proof that she's cheating on you, leave her past alone. You should be worried that if you don't lay off the subject, she will get tired of it and you.
2006-06-27 22:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried about her dishonesty. Two years is a long time to carry on an affair. Guess she has alot to hide.
2006-06-27 22:02:23 · answer #11 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋