i have just started to chat with my old best friend in austrelia. She dosent say much and she has other best friends. its like she forgot about me or something. Do u think she hates me ????=(
2006-06-27 14:20:59 · 26 answers · asked by Me 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not talking to you often verses not talking to you at all are completely different things! Why would you think she would suddenly hate you???? Your insecurities, need for reassurance, and jealousy of her new friends could end your friendship if you don't get it under control.
2006-06-27 14:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old friendships can be like that. Does she hate you? Well, I really think the answer lies in what happened that you guys are not friends like you used to be. I have had several old friendships in my life, some of which have faded because our lives have gone different directions, but others because of.....I don't know why. These are often times unanswerable questions, because maybe that old friend won't share with you (ultimatey) why they didn't want to be real close friends anymore. So, to answer your question, I'd have to say, what do YOU think? Has she said anything?
2006-06-27 14:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by emilylou21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate seems pretty strong. When it comes to chatting over the computer, you have to remember that everyone has their "real" lives to deal with somehow. Is this a friend that moved away? She probably has changed a little and life is moving for her as much as I am sure life is moving for you somehow. Don't jump to conclusions. Talk to your friend and ask her how much her life has changed since you last spoke so long ago. Good luck.
2006-06-27 14:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it has to do with being in person. Its really hard to maintain friendship in long distance. She doesnt hate you. How can she say much if you guys dont spend time together in person? I think it's time for you to start a new best friend. Everybody can have more than one best friends?
2006-06-27 14:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by tonygayles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking if anything is wrong..I just found my best friend that I havent seen for 15 years and we talk all the time...but latley her email come everyonce in awhile ( use to be everyday) I asked if I had done something and she said definalty not...she's just been so busy and was sorry for making me think that. If she is a real important friend, just try asking...good luck.
2006-06-27 14:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its just that you two are far away now and you need to talk about the old times how much fun you susto have and see what she says and see if she wants to come and visit some time try to see if your two parents will keep leting you to visit each other when schools off and see what is going on and maybe you to can be best friends but far apart.
2006-06-27 14:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word. She's your OLD BEST FRIEND for a reason. You're both in different places, and if she needs to chat, be there, otherwise don't bother.
2006-06-27 14:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Syder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many Billions of people out there in the world and your worried about one.I say turn a new leaf and make some new friends.
2006-06-27 14:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by italianpanther7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah but after a while of not talking to some one you definayley started to loose touch and you dont have that sort of communication that you used to have and you just need to give it time because if you guys are real friends then she wont treat you like this
2006-06-27 14:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u guys just might have not seen each other in so long it is like u grew apart. u have to get to know each other again if u hope to have a good friendship. but that is what happens when we get older. vry few people remain good friends with some one from their childhood.
2006-06-27 14:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋