what do u do when your going through a healing process over a relationship and u still see the person?

Question

Im going through a healing process right now my friend and I have a problem bout a month and a half ago. He gave me some money to keep and it got stolen from me. I did pay he over half and hes kinda getting through this I m too. For one I didnt steal the money I was at work. We still dont know to this day. He was mad at first for a long time it was to the point he wanted me to leave him alone I did but he called me after a few days. I use to go over there every day that stop cause I want to give him his space and Istill giving him his space. He calls me still but things are so diffrerent we talk and laugh when we are out but when its time to take him home ,he just get out and say he would call me later, but then I use to go in with him and chill intill I went home and now it hurts that I cant do this it was a everyday thing and now its been bout 2 months since I did this I miss him and its hard dealing with this I do text him to see hows hes doing and let him know that I love him

Answer 1

Knowing the truth that you did not steal his money, just be what you were like before this thing happened. His indifference right now may be caused by that incident and perhaps, he is still in the process of making himself believe that it was not really you who got that money. It may not be easy for him to believe you because of the trust he had for you... the trust that you could take good care of his money for him.

Time will heal that doubt, I'm sure, for there is no wound that time fails to heal. Just continue being that person that anyone can be trusted and the truth will set you free.

It will really be difficult for you to receive that kind of treatment from him but you have to live with it at the moment. Just try not to be overly affected for your own peace of mind. Keep yourself busy with other things while you are waiting for him to realize how wrongly he has been treating you lately. Believe in your heart that things will work towards that realization. When that time comes, you will be happier than ever. Good luck.

Answer 2

You can remain friends with him. But let him go. First of all he should not have gotten mad at you about the money. Money should never come between a relationship. But since it did and you guys are still friends, then that's good. Just casual talk with him. But start dating other men again. Eventually the pain will ease away. But if it's meant for you two to be together then it would happen. But get out enjoy yourself, keep living. Trust me I'm in my 5th serious relationship. If something doesn't work out with one guy I move on and I don't hate any of them, I'm just not going to stop living and loving someone else just because you gave up. Get what I mean. Keep your head up. Things will turn out for the best....

Answer 3

I'm sorry. This could happen to anyone. Keep on doing what you're doing--smile, be friendly, but don't push to get back to old times. You both sound like nice guys. He could have blown you off completely. If he brings the subject up again, just tell him how sorry you are that it happened and how bad you feel about it. That's all you can do. Don't talk to anybody about it--just let it go. Don't put yourself in this kind of situation ever again.

Answer 4

I think it is a matter of trust .
You were the person who had the money, while in your care it went missing.
Unless you can try to do a little homework and find out what happened to the money the relationship will never be the same.
Who had access to your home while you were at work?

Answer 5

I am in the healing process now.I still meet him.Its hurt me but i can't do anything except ignore it.I just keep myself busy till no time to think about him.You know why we broke off?His friend who happened to be my colleague don't like us together and cause us broke off.Imagine how i feel.Yet, i still have to see that idiot guy everyday in my office.

Let me tell you what.What will make the guy respect you and step back if if you can be stronger than him and can face him stable and be cool.

Answer 6

easy, you get together with a few friends and go to the club, meet new people. I guarantee someone will ask you out. then in the morning you will be so hung over you wont even know who that guys is that you're hanging out with anymore. Do yourself a favor and move on. Leave that jerk alone!!!

Answer 7

obviously u got a true friendship cuz if it weren't he wud have been stopped talkin 2 u.. be grateful 4 dat... giv it time cuz somethings only need time.. it will completely die down but 4 d mean time try to do things dat bring u closer.. if d phone calls aren't d same go c a funi movie.. stay away from trying 2 talk on d phone cuz dat will depress u.. instead go out play pool or do fun stuf u usually enjoy

Answer 8

hey, if you didn't steal it, you have done all you can, money will ruin friendships, your friend should be more understanding, if the money was in your care , you should pay it back. if I borrow something from someone and something happens to it, I expect I will have to replace it with like value. that's why I try not to borrow anything, I would not borrow money. unless I was starving and that hasn't happened.

Answer 9

If you paid him back, then he has no right to be mad at you, its not like you stole his money. If this is the kind of person he is, I won't want to be their friend. Its only money, anyway. How much money was it anyway?

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Answer 10

well love hurts