I have a friend and she usually wants to hang out.I tell her kindly that i don't want to play,then she says she's going to hangout in the little shed we have.I tell her no i don't want any people here at my house.then she gets all mad and she says she isn't my friend.also I told her i hung out w/ her for the whole after noon.I just need some time alone,but she says"Fine fine!I'll give you time alone!You're so annoying u know that?!" That hurt my feelings. What should I do?
2006-06-27 14:03:51 · 8 answers · asked by Marstar824 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i see that you need to tell her in a not so kind way to let her know that you are serious. i understand that she is your friend but it seems that she doesnt get it by you telling her in a nice way. she is the type of friend you might not need because a real friend would understand that you need some alone time.
2006-06-27 14:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
This has happened to me. We are still friends!! Tell her that this really isn't going to work out. She's very nice but, you need your alone time too. The best friendship is when you have time with and without each other so their's time for surprises. Also tell her your house is a private property. If she wants to be friends she needs to respect you. Also say you are still friends, but just need some alone time. Make sure she knows it's also good to make new friends. And use I I I not you, you, you.
2006-06-27 21:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by monkey. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just mad but she probably didn't mean that. Kindly tell her how you feel. If she's a good friend she'll listen to you. She probably has no one else to hangout and when you told her you needed to be alone she fight have felt bad. She just doesn't want to be a lonely person. So mabey you should try giving her ideas that she can do herself. There is such as thing as "two much time together".
2006-06-27 21:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt seem like a very good friend to me. honestly, if i was in your position, id just tell her i didnt want to be friends anymore. she obviously does not respect your need for space, and seems to be very clingy, which may be a result of ignorance from parents or loved ones. if you really want to preserve the friendship, maybe you should make a schedule of when you guys should hang together.?. i know me and my bf love to hang with each other, but we only do it between 12-4 beacuse any more than that, and we might kill each other..figureitivly of course
2006-06-27 21:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really ur friend she'd come to her senses..Tell her she's annoying....U should really just leave her alone for a day or two and se what she does..
2006-06-27 21:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kick_Fanatic_Jordan_Radic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to grow up!
2006-06-27 21:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her " Grow up!"
2006-06-27 21:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by hottie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her. she is obviously not a very good friend!
2006-06-27 21:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋