ummmm.we been going back together for 2 weeks and am thinking bout old expriences and i am scared am i jus letting them get to me or should i talk to him about,,,,it mite be jus me i need help
2006-06-27 13:43:45 · 27 answers · asked by myia c 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If he has hurt you physically before, you are entering a cycle and you need to (well...should, sorry) GET OUT of the relationship now.
If you are talking about emotionally........then it will most likely help you to talk to him, and depending on his reactions, that can tell you exactly if getting back with him was a good idea.
Hope this helps!
2006-06-27 13:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents about it and explain everything. If you are scared of your boyfriend.. aka potential husband.. the man you devote your life to... than you need to get out of the relationship before it goes too far. If he hurt you once he will probably do it again.
2006-06-27 20:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the past experiences weren't good ones, and your afraid of it, try to sit him down and talk about it. Get everything out in the air and take it from there. Im sure from his response or the way he acts, you can make a good decision!
2006-06-27 20:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by moofy011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u wanna be with someone if they have hurt u in the past take it from me one of my ex-boyfriends was like that he use to hit me it was a mess i think u should walk away cuz thats what i did and it made me a better person because i thought with my head and not my heart
2006-06-27 20:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by crystal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is it about yourself that makes you think you deserve the get the crap kicked out of you? I would say you should be scared because he has not changed and you are still taking him back. Get counseling and get free of him.
2006-06-27 20:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by NoFearIamHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why'd did you get back with him if you had a bad relationship in the past did you actually think things would be better this time and if you are scared he is goin to hurt you then why stay with him don't stay with him leave him if you are scared of him
2006-06-27 20:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by rebelgurl_26241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lil darlin. anybody will tell you to dump him. but the real question is"why do you want stay with him"?. maybe it's security,who knows. the thing you have to do is look after #1 and thats you. eh. so you think long and hard about it and i'm sure the right decision will come to you. good luck.
2006-06-27 20:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by rpm53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a good friend who is going to be there with you and you get the authorities involved. Domestic violence is not a one time thing. You let him do it now and he will never stop.
2006-06-27 20:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need help. I would suggest stay away from him if you have any fear. Later get a restrain order. Police cannot do anything because he has done nothing YET.
2006-06-27 20:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by righton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way, then you should NOT be dating him at all. You should dump him ASAP and never speak to him again. Also, tell your parents exactly what you are doing and why. They will help you.
2006-06-27 20:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋