The connection is overwhelming and I know she also still loves her husband, but I have to know if I should fight for this.
2006-06-27 13:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by Jay B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know she also still loves her husband, but our connection is overwhelming, and I have to know if I should fight for this. We met through a college organization, and we stayed together at a remote campus location for awhile, and though she didn;t cross any boundaries physically, she did tell me how she felt. She was also honest with her husband about this. She's not some floozy just having fun, she's a good girl who is confused, and now I am. I miss her, and I think I love her like I haven't loved before.
2006-06-27 13:57:04 · update #1
NO.
If she makes a choice to cheat on her husband, then the day will come that she will probbly make a choice to cheat on you, too.
Sounds like she is already having an emotional affair with you, which is in itself cheating on the marriage commitment. Kind of hard to build a trust relaltionship with someone when there is already proof they wont remain faithful.
Go find someone who is unattached.
2006-06-27 13:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you an idiot? WHY would anyone want to get involved with a married person and hope it would 'work out'. Is your dream woman someone who would cheat on her partner? If not, then why are you enamored with this woman, because plainly she's a cheater (emotionally if not physically). If she'll leave him for you, don't let your ego convince you that she wouldn't leave you for someone else...
...but as you said she's married and happy. Why do you want to break up a happy marriage? Remember, what you do to others, you okay to be done to you. Would you really be okay with some dude moving in on your happy marriage some day, and trying to take your wife away?
Focus on the single chicks...there are tons of us out there in the world...some do cheat, but why get involved from the get go with someone whom you know is capable of that?
2006-06-27 13:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 20:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Nothing can stand in the way of true love. I mean It's not fair to the husband but if she lives her life thinking, dreaming, wishing, longing to be with you then that's not fair either. It will only eventually take control of her marriage also if she loves you that much. Get to know her feelings entirely and if she loves her husband unconditionally then you both need to put and end to this.
2006-06-27 13:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it can't work she's married duh. theirs plenty of woman in this world and you don't have 2 have that one.just leave it alone. Her husband is probably very much in love with her. if she really wants to be with you than let her come to you after she breaks it off with her husband. But don't do any thing to come between them. marriage is sacred. it's not your place to break them up it's hers so my best advice to you is if you really love her you will leave her alone! i know i'm only 14 but i do know what i'm talkin about so please take my advice
JuSt kEepIN iT reAL
2006-06-27 13:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this woman lives far away, then where did you meet her? How do you keep in touch? I can't give you my opinion without all the facts
2006-06-27 13:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by MysticHerring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Back off and leave her marriage alone. There is nothing more despicable than a home-wrecker; you don't want to be that guy.
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-06-27 13:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets look at the variables:
she is married
she lives far away
she loves her hubby
you cant find anyone in your own town to love
NOPE - Wont work
2006-06-27 13:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
2006-06-27 13:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jay, don't. She's toying with you. You are something that passes time for her. While you pine and think about her, she is having sex with her husband and building her future with him.
2006-06-27 13:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋