i cant seem to find a good guy and when i do he says in a nutshell that he doesn't want a realationship.im trying and im sure the internet is not a good place but neways im looking for a good guy with a great heart and nice personality one who makes me laugh and feel good about me. u know whats wrong with having someone like that?
2006-06-27 13:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by fstygrl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I had the hardest time for awhile I would almost search out trying to find someone...and when I did I would run into the same predicament you are in, nobody wanted a real relationship and just wanted to have fun without commitment which I just to not do.
My mother gave me this advice and it is something I did not want to hear much less work...she told me to stop looking for love and then it will find you...you know what I did--now I am married to a great guy that you would classify as a "nice guy"...but sometimes a person does have to get out there and look too.
I think there is nothing wrong with looking on the Internet especially at reputable dating sites assuming your age is appropriate and you are very careful I don't know your age but I would wait until you are at least 18 to do that-- in fact if I was single I would do that, just state what you are looking for straight out then you don't have to waste your time.
I know it seems like forever or nothing will ever happen but you know sometime sooner or later you will find a good guy that will "deserve you".
Good luck and have a good day--JammieG
2006-06-27 13:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by jaded_illusions78 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the guys you've been meeting aren't ready for relationships there is nothing you can do about it. Just accept it and move on. Don't worry about finding the right guy. Instead, concentrate on yourself. Become the best person you can be and make yourself happy. When you've done all of that, you'll look up to see that the right man for you has found you!
2006-06-27 13:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by cornfed89115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look trust me a boyfriend isnt everything i remember when all my friends had boyfriends and i didnt i felt like a loner but then after a while i got older guys started noticing me and i started getting boyfriends ur time will come but dont rush it being single isnt the worse thing ever and like my mom use to tell me when ur ready for a boyfriend he will come to u
2006-06-27 14:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by crystal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl this is wat I think ya should do...juss wait...I know that might not b wat u want to hear right now but it will b best and u can find someone who is as nice and as caring as u seem to b...and I rly dont think u should b lookin for someone on the net....only b/c there is alot of odd ppl out there but I known a few good ppl who has dated on the net...juss b careful....best of luck!
2006-06-27 15:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by cutiecat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might look kinda bad...
2006-06-27 13:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋