I think premarital sex is ok,only if you have it with the person you are going to marry later on in life.
2006-06-27 12:47:04 · 23 answers · asked by Angel_Anton 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree wit u. even tho i know somehow its wrong ( my beliefs )... but i think if you love someone sooo much and your going to marry the person, is ok. its just like a connection.
2006-06-28 04:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley premarital sex is never ok. Life changes so quickly and depending on your age you may have a lot of growing yet to do.
Sex in relationships can also cloud a developing relationship and causes a harder separation later. Besides all the junk you can contract or a pregnancy.....if you are going to get married then wait.
2006-07-08 14:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a glorious example of relative morality! According to you, you should marry everyone you sleep with. According to most people, it's "to each his own". My morals and beliefs come from a higher source. I am sorry to all the hedonists out there but pre-marital sex is wrong. Always has been, always will be. Saying it's OK "only in cases where you are going to marry the person later" is a cop-out used by people who KNOW it's wrong but want to ease their conscience. By the way, I did have pre-marital sex with the girl I married and yes, it was wrong. And I used the very same excuse you are trying to use now.
2006-07-10 08:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a healthy part of the maturation process, whether you are having sex with your future marriage partner or not. There is no shame or negativity to premarital sex, as long as it is being done safely and consensually. It is something that needs to be discussed between both partners before it occurs. The more comfortable the two people are talking about it, the more comfortable they will be when it comes right down to doing it. There are a number of birth control methods that need to be discussed between partners before any kind of sexual encounters.
2006-07-06 10:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by pjbottom_rebellion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital sex is ok only if you know what is important to you in this situation - and life in general.
Seems that you arent so clear.
In that case... i dont suppose that things will clear up overnight. But you could end up dealing with a pregnancy or STD overnight.
So... glove up, and use protection for your protection(lubricant) so you aren't sorry for whatever happens
2006-07-10 02:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practically, in our modern life that is no longer a big issue unless you came from a religious family you consider marriage as sacred and having sex after the wedding!Good for you if you will marry the girl that you have sex with!But set to it that you are ready enough to support the baby and your GF incase she got pregnant and you can provide evrything they need! Be responsible!
2006-07-09 22:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the society you live in. I would say that pre-marital sex is unnecessary in most cases. We try to support pre-marital sex becoz we are basically weak and cannot resist temptation. The stronger ones remain virgins till marriage and present their partners their unadulterated body, mind and soul. If you are sure to marry your partner, why not marry first? Most of the time we are not sure whether we want to marry but want the sweet fruits of marriage without marrying. We put the cart before the horse. That is why many marriages fail.
2006-07-08 07:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all have our own opinions and I agree with you, premarital sex with ur intended to marry is ok
2006-07-07 15:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, but then again realistically, the answer to that question always becomes clearer after the sex. It's then, and with the passage of a little time - I usually figure 3 months - that each is tested on their commitment and sincerity.
2006-06-27 12:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely, biblically, it is totally wrong and unacceptable, even when you are so sure you will get married to your partner in future. But within the community, it is acceptable, even if you are not sure you will get married to your partner.
Everyone, man or woman has a conscience and knows what is right or wrong. this should not be a debate.
Deep down our minds, we know what is right from what is wrong, a general opinion does not matter.
2006-07-10 00:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by minny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋