I have been married to a robot for 4 years now. I hate being a romantic person in my marriage when it always ends in being alone. I am married to a professional woman. Do women in professional careers have trouble with intamacy? I feel so alone here. I have talked to her for years. (No change) I recently met a woman in the same situation as me. We feel we are soul mates and want to be together. Neither of us want to hurt our spouces. Are we in a no win situation?
2006-06-27 12:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you should be honest with her and tell her what is going on in your heart because it seems like you are really crying out for help. Women in professional careers don't have trouble with intimacy but maybe that she is sleeping with someone at work but if you spoke with your spouse for years and no change, you should get a divorce.
2006-06-27 12:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife probely feel the same way as you do her soul mate is not you . talk to her and a divorce might be what the dr order dont be surprise if girlfriend already has a soul mate in mind she just didnt want to hurt you now that you finally realize it ant getting any better move on let the lady let her hair down you are a hold back
2006-06-27 12:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!You are between a rock and a hard place, to say the least.First of all, you married this robot.You knew how she was when you got married.Then, you look elswhere for companionship and think you've found your soulmate?Give me a break.Your suppose to marry your soulmate.What happened??Anyways, talk to your wife again.Tell her how you feel and let her know if things don't get better, you can't stay in a loveless marriage anymore.Then, leave and do what you want.Don't cheat!!!
2006-06-27 12:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH HA! There is always, "the other person" in the picture. Listen, the grass always looks greener, but it is just as hard to mow and weed-eat! Stay where you are, and talk to your wife. Do what you did back when you were trying to win her heart. Forget this "other woman"......she's NOT the answer! Best of Luck!!
2006-06-27 12:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your wife and go with the soul mate. You are in a no win situation but you can't live your life in misery.
2006-06-27 12:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you are feeling and that you desire a lil romance in your life maybe you two cam compromise I don't know was there ever romance if so try to get it back! You do something romantic and see if she follows suit!
2006-06-27 12:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both first divorce and marry
2006-06-27 12:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋