A guy ask me to have sex with him, but when I tell him no he got mad and said that I was scared, and that I was a little girl.
2006-06-27 12:33:44 · 34 answers · asked by Strawberry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who cares what the prick said. You said you're not ready and that's your decision and if he doesn't accept that then he can piss off.
2006-06-27 12:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Stawberry,listen, some guys may just go out with girls just to have sex with them. Those guys are jerks! If your not ready, then just wait till you are! Sex is not about being cool or impressing a guy, sex is about love and passion. So if your not ready or you don't want to do it with a guy, that's ok and you should feel proud of your decision! If they get mad because you don't want to have sex with them, then just forget about them! But be carful because if all he wants is sex, he may be willing to rape. So keep your distance if he doesn't like your decision and break up with him on the phone and lock your doors if he is close! If he is a sweet guy and gets mad, give him ONE chance, he might warm up to the decicion, but still be careful!
2006-06-27 12:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Christine L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't truly care about you!
Never, Never, Never, have sex if you do not feel right about it.
If the guy gets mad when you say you are not ready, then
you know it is time to find a new guy.
Your telling him you are not ready does not make you a little
girl, it shows you are mature enough to hold to you principles and
values.
Believe in yourself.
2006-06-27 13:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) if you are not ready to have sex right now,then it is up to you and only you to decide when your ready.
(2) it does not make you a little girl to wait until you are ready.sex is a big step in life and it is very personal,especially to women.
(3)this guy seems to be a jerk for trying to get you to have sex with him and your not ready.
(4)having sex when your not ready and you don't want to is rape.
(5)wait until your ready and find a man who will love you even if you don't have sex with him.
2006-06-27 12:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angel_Anton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a little girl..it's more like he's a selfish immature little boy!! Sex is not something to be entered into lightly..if you're not ready then DON'T DO IT!!! Wait till you're ready..and anyone who tells you other wise does not really care about YOU...if this guy cared about YOU he would respect you and not try to push you into it
2006-06-27 12:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. MP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me the last thing you need is a guy walking aroung talking about how you are a dirty slutt! If you thought that he was not worth it and you said no, that is the most mature thing you could ever do. What he obviously needs is a Lady of the Night! When he got upset it's obvious he doesn't value you more than his dick. Girl leave that dumb, idiotic freak and find you someone that considers you and values your opinion. He obviously could not care less about how you feel!!
2006-06-27 12:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Young,Sexy&Educated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever give into something like that. You don't want to associate having sex with any kind of shame or pressure. You only get one first impression, and Sex is too cool of a dude not to like. I'm not saying your first time needs to be magical, but at least make it pleasant.
2006-06-27 12:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by J Bents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say three cheers for you! Wait until marriage. That is the best thing to find a guy virgin too. That way you will know neither of you have been with anyone else and will cherish each other for ever!
You are a wise person~
2006-06-27 12:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary.... It takes maturity and self-esteem to do what you did. You did the right thing and should be proud of yourself. The guy got mad because he wanted to use you for sex and didn't get his way.
2006-06-27 12:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your age. But if you are thinking of having a family and are married to him that is the right relation. Just remember a child is a lifetime commitment. Also, children need both parents. Check out your commitment before you make a lifetime commitment to a one night gent.
2006-06-27 12:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were very smart to say no because it sounds like that's all he wants from you. If he cared about you, he wouldn't have gotten mad about it and called you a little girl. He's a selfish creep and you're better off without him.
2006-06-27 12:39:17 · answer #11 · answered by angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋