Okay, i already know you are suppose to wait... But what if you and your boyfriend/ girlfriend REALLY and TRUELY love each other?? And ya'll end up getting married? i really need some serious advice, so if you have any, please share
2006-06-27 12:33:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You'll know when the time is right...
I dont believe there is a certain age, but if your both old enough to understand the protection against STD's and the use of contraception, and you both love each other, than i think its ok if you share the experience.
But make sure you make it wonderful, don't go ****ing in the back seat of a car or anything!!
2006-06-27 12:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_surf_chick06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that if you have to ask the question, the time isn't right. There are so many people having sex without thinking things through and that irresponsibility is what leads to STD's, pregnancy and broken hearts. If you really love the person you're with and the feeling is mutual, the first thing is to sit down and talk about EVERYthing. Make certain that the both of you are on the same page and that you both want the same things. Be sure that this act means the same to him/her as it does to you. It doesn't sound very romantic, but it's the best thing you can do. After that, you need to make sure that you are in the best place (frame of mind, financially, emotionally, etc.) to handle any and all eventualities that may arise. See your doctor, both of you, to be certain that neither of you has any communicable diseases and to get the straight facts about what is about to happen to you and your body. After you have done all of these things, take some time out to pray about it. This is where you will receive your best answers. Good luck to you!
2006-06-27 12:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by cornfed89115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know for sure that you're ready. Or that you really and truly love one another. Think about the seriousness of what you're thinking about doing. Think about telling your parents what you are thinking about doing. If you can't be honest enough with yourself to say that you are ready to stand one hundred percent by your decision then, you may want to think about it for a while. I'm not trying to pass judgment, I wasn't married when I first had sex. I am trying to give some, been there done that advice. Wait. Give it time. Have fun, pet, touch, tease, but wait for the full monty sex stuff. You'll know when it's time because you won't have any question of it being right.
2006-06-27 12:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by lunalutz22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all love, sex and marriage don't always come together in the bitter end. People can love eachother and have sex and never get married and fall apart prior to creating a real future for themselves. They can marry having never loved eachother fully and have sex just to divorce and perhaps have children caught in the turmoil. Or some can have sex with no feeling of love or expectations of marriage and this is why waiting is best. You never really know what is in the heart of another and waiting...tells all.
2006-06-27 13:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by ladonnaschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on age if you are a teen ( 11-20) then it's probably hormones, but if you are over 20 and you are really sure you want to marry that guy go ahead and Marry him, before you have sex, because what if then it turns out that it's not the guy you've been looking for then you'll end up loosing your virginity and other stuff.... so i suggest you reallly think about that ...
Best of luck to ya
2006-06-27 12:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_clawz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting is the best thing. I am now engaged and my fiance and I decided to wait because we love and respect one another. being in love is a beautiful thing from God. Love doesnt open the door to sex or love making. If you both love each other and respect one another you both can be strong enough to wait. So serious about this, you don't want to do anything you regret. Love - real love - honestly WILL WAIT. Just looking out.
2006-06-27 12:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by msbvirtuous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ya'll think ur gonna end up getting married then wht is the harm in waiting? here is how u kno ur ready to have sex. he is willing to go out and buy an expensive ring get on 1 knee and ask u to be his wife for all of eternity.
2006-06-27 18:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a right or wrong age to have SEX
but think about the risks
What will you do if you get pregnant
STD'S
Who will support you if you have a baby?
Ididn't wait I don't think anyone should wait until they are married
You have to have fun If you wanna have one nights stands do so But be careful and remember you can get Pregnant even it is your first time
2006-06-27 12:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would wait cuz most people that have sex arnt really happy and they usually think there in love and then end up having sex with the wrong guy and by then its too late and u have to leave with the mistake trust me from exspirence i kno how guys can get about sex its like they will screw anybody with out any emotion but gurls when we do it it means so much to us
2006-06-27 14:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by crystal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married and ready to have and take care of a baby
2006-07-04 09:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋