2006-06-27 12:23:46 · 16 answers · asked by Aliyah 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't think a 12 year old even needs her own phone - but certainly she doesn't need to talk to 18 and 21 year old - that is a big age difference at this point in life, the maturity levels are very different between a 12 year old and an 18 year old
2006-06-27 12:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by pammy_6201 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea for a 12 year old to have a phone; public phones are dirty and often in rough parts of the neighborhood. However, this 12 year old clearly needs a phone with heavy parental restrictions, where the only person she can call is her mother/family, and her mother is always able to reach her. No way should she be casually speaking to a member of the opposite sex that much older than she is.... Get her a restricted access phone.
2006-06-27 12:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 6-9 yr age difference is not a terrible age difference unless it is cutting into youth. At the age of 12, you're still a child and there are reasons people go to jail for corrupting a child of that age, it is wrong. I don't blame the 12 year old as much as I do the parents who provided her the phone as well as the freedom to even meet with/talk to these older guys. If this person is yourself, might I suggest you don't become to meat lure to promote these guys' right to ruining their own futures. As much as they may very well carry on with some other child... you would be helping make things a disaster for yourself and for them.
2006-06-27 13:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by ladonnaschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 12 and is talking to 18 and 21 yr olds? First there is something wrong with this girl. Self esteem issues I guess. Needs more parental supervision than getting her phone taken away. How is she getting these numbers? The parents need to nip it at that *** right there. Second....the only 18 or 21 yr old that would want to talk to a 12 yr old is a rapist or pedophile. This 12 year old is in danger in my opinion.
2006-06-27 12:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs to slow down a lot before she is pregnant at 13 struggling in school at 14 and dies of aids by 18
2006-06-27 12:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by bunnicula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's looking for trouble and the 18 and 21 year olds want to go to jail.
2006-06-27 12:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is too young to be doing that kind of stuff.Thats what the girl get for gettin her phone tookin away and girl should get a punishment also.
2006-06-27 12:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by RaNisha J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone about this - older sister, older friend. Usually men who want to talk to someone who is much much younger than them - they want to take advantage of her in some way, SHAPE or FORM. Please be smart and very careful - don't we see these things on the news everyday. Don't think that could not ever be you... please talk to someone your age - it is MUCH safer. Just looking out.
2006-06-27 12:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by msbvirtuous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to grow up too fast. Save her before it happens. God Bless you.
2006-06-27 14:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Magali♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple....two main points.....
Either she lied to the guys about her age or they're sick pervs who know how easily it is to take advantage of young girls and how nieve they are
2006-06-27 15:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋