what do you do when you really like someone but your're very SHY!?

Answer 1

go home and cry.......

Answer 2

Being shy is a difficult thing to go through. I am also very shy at 1st, but then when I get to know someone, I get more talkative. I would think that the best thing for you do is to find a common ground. Find something that you are both very intrested in and strike up a conversation on that topic. You never know where it may lead. You still may have to start the conversation. Sometimes you dont have to say much. Smile with your eyes. Give off the vibe of kindess and sweetness. You cant go wrong.

Answer 3

Here's a story that I read a while ago, that really helped me. Maybe it can help you too:

I'll never forget the day I first saw "a dream walking." Her name was Susie Summers (name changed to protect the fantastic). Her smile, whcih sparkled beneath two twinkling eyes, was electric and made people who recieved it (especiall guy people) feel very special. While her physical beauty was astounding, it was her invisible beauty I shall always remember. She really cared about other people and was an extremely talented listener. Her sense of humor could brighten your entire day and her wise words were always exaclty what you needed to hear. She was not only admired but also genuinely respected by memebers of both sexes. With everything in the world to be conceited about, she was extremely humble. Needless to say, she was every guys dream. Especially mine. I got to walk her to class once a day, and once I even got to eat lunch with her all by myself. I felt on the top of the world. I would think, "If only I culd have a girlfriend like Susie Summers, I'd never even look at another female." But I figured that someone this outstanding was probably dating someone far better than myself. Even though I was president of the student body, I just knew I didn't stand a ghost of a chance. So at graduation, I said farewell to my first big crush. A year later, I met her best friend in a shopping ceneter and we had lunch together. With a lump in my throat, I asked her how Susie was. "Well, she got over you," was the reply. "What are you talking about?" I asked. "You were really cruel to her the way you led her on, always walking her to class and making her think you were interested. Do you remember the time when you had lunch with her? Well, she stayed by the phone the entire weekend. She was sure you were going to call and ask her out." I was so afraid of rejection, I never risked letting her know how I felt. Suppose I had asked her out and she'd said no? What's the worst thing that ould have happened? I wouldn't have a date with her. Well, guess what? I DIDN"T HAVE A DATE WITH HER ANYHOW! What makes it worse is that I probably could have.

Answer 4

The mark of true courage is not that one fears nothing, that's just being stupid. Courage is the ability to work through fear, despite it. Everyone has the capacity to be brave, even you. Don't think that most people aren't afraid; they're just too afraid to admit it, or perhaps they're merely the fearless/stupid type.

It will be awkward when you approach the object of your desire. You'd want to try not to embarass yourself by yelling out your love in a crowded room. Instead try to get alone with the person. Say what's on your mind with as much directness as possible; don't let yourself be sidetracked by commenting on his/her shoes or the weather. Once you say it, see how he/she reacts. If an awkward silence occurs (and I mean around 10 seconds or more), you might ask the other person what they're thinking. I won't tell you not to be afraid of being rejected, but don't let it stop you, and if the other person declines don't let it stop you from enjoying life. But, asking in this way might just win you a positive response. I wish you all the luck in the world!

Answer 5

Let him know. Just think about the worse that could happen-he'll say he's not interested and then you just move on. I know rejection is hard, but it's good to gain experience so that when someone even better comes along, you will feel more comfortable to approach him. I know it's very nerve racking because I am the same way. I have learned to gain confidence, courage, and accept rejection. And if he does say no, you just simply say "next.." Go for every opportunity possible. Otherwise, you might regret it later! And this just doesn't apply to relationships.

Answer 6

easy !! just drop them hints,,,but very specail,,,if they have a hobby,,get something in that catagory,,,if they like a color or a shape or a sound,,music always a winner,,but make shure they dont know that your the giver,,make it a game and if it comes out that both of you dont connect,,you have a new friend and im sure that person will apreshiate all the thought you put into showing you care ,,,,,good luck !!!!

Answer 7

If you are like me, nothing, and then watch some other lucky sucker scoop them up and start a great relationship with them, while you stand there staring, wishing you weren't so shy and had some balls to talk to them. So sad, hopefully you aren't like me.

Answer 8

try to be a bit flirty, just don´t exceed yourself, he´ll get it, unless he´s an idiot. Another thing u can do is telling him directy, but u said you were too shy, so i´d say flirting is the option

Answer 9

Just believe in yourself more. I say let that person know your feelings. That way, if they don't feel the same you won't spend any more time on it and can move on to someone who does like you. Good luck!

Answer 10

be in his company and have close intemate relation. And once you are so, I can tell you, you will not need to say anything. LOVE SPEAKS.

If he doesn't respond, either you do not same same feelings on other side or he is already engaged.

Answer 11

you overcome your fear and try to smile then look him straight in the eyes then talk to him even if u tell him nonsense a conversation should take place
well u should try at least before it's too late