My bfriend & I have been 2gether 1 yr & 3 mths.I have kicked him out a few times cuz I found out he was emailing & txting other girls.Also has lied 2 me about other things.We had a baby in November 2005.The baby was 2 mths early with Down's Syndrome. After I went back to work I found out my job was being downsized. He got fired from his job right after I stopped working. Since February he has only had 1 job. He doesn't do much of anything to contribute to the chores w/o me nagging him. I get unemployment, SSI for my son & child support for my other son. My lease will be up in Sept; don't plan on renewing it. Cuz he hasn't worked & all my money has gone to paying all of the expenses we haven't saved towards getting another place. I can stay with my parents but he can't.I think'n bout telling him that he needs 2 get stuff his 2gether & we can work on it then. I have no respect 4 him cuz of this. I care bout him but don't feel any love cuz of this. What should I do?
2006-06-27 11:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by ladyebeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to do what is best for you and your babies. If that means going to live with your parents well, then you do what you have to do. He is already aware of the situation and if he is doing nothing to change it, then he has already answered this question. Pack you bags hon...you can go home again.
Please don't feel bad for him...maybe this is just what he needs to get on his feet again.
2006-06-27 12:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The boyfriend's a deadbeat. Kick him to the curb and live with your parents until you're back on your feet. Make sure you get other things to help you and your children as well, things you haven't mentioned such as food stamps also know as EBT and W.I.C. checks - the checks are a little complicated to use but you can get them by applying at the WIC Office in your local hospital or at least that's how it works over by where I live, those will help cut down some expenses of raising your children in terms of keeping them and yourself fed so you can put money towards other expenses.
I wouldn't even give the jerk a fair warning. He's had enough chances. Just leave his *** while he's gone so he don't stalk you and let him do the math. Men like that really shouldn't be allowed to breed.
2006-06-27 19:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to leave when my lease was up if i were you. My hubby works his @$$ off so that we don't fall behind and still finds time to do the things around the house that he knows i hate to do. You and your children deserve so much more, and you'll never find it if you keep letting your current man walk all over you. Good luck and God Bless!! :-)
2006-06-27 19:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by soon_2_B_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his ***
Umm well you are in a tough situation but You can not Excpect him to work to jobs to make up for your lost income Because of this baby do you really.
I can see you excpeting him to try to get a better job.
2006-06-27 19:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and set up ur life to work for the child u have and ur self maybe date other people.... cause if the guy really cared he'd be working his *** off to help
2006-06-27 18:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pack your things and go. He ain't showing any signs of getting better so why stay and waste your time and the little bit of money that you have
2006-06-27 19:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cross your legs and get some psychiatric help!
Good luck
2006-06-27 18:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋