2006-06-27 11:51:55 · 21 answers · asked by Kimmie 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
loving someone else is a gamble. if u are meant to be then u won't lose yourself but it's a loss if u fall for the other person & it is not returned
2006-06-27 11:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really a deep good love then you will gain and never loose any part of you. Yes you have someone else to think about but that person has to think about you also, but is will be like a missing part has been found and you are more than you ever was before. Just make sure that you stay true to yourself
2006-06-27 11:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what kind of love, and depends what you mean by loosing yourself? love love.. well its all about loosing yourself isnt it? you can't love with out loosing yourself...
if you mean making love, well thats a different matter. but i think the fun with love is loosing yourself.. although iv probably made a mistake lol.. love does strange things to you.. doesn't it?
2006-06-27 12:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes two. NEVER let the BF/GF be the center of a relationship then you loose yourself and no matter how hard you try its hard to find yourself again.
2006-06-27 11:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot lose yourself. In fact, love can actually enhance your own personality. Love is really a "give and take" process that allows you the freedom to truly be yourself.
2006-06-27 12:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very hard thing to do in my experience.
However if we lose ourselves in relationships, we have dependent natures. We are looking for someone else to validate us or give us what we never received as a child.
We have to become healthy in our own minds and spirits and take care of ourselves first. We have to love ourselves and if we can truly do that, then we won't lose ourselves when in love with others. Strong self-esteem and self love keeps us grounded in ourselves.
2006-06-27 19:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Moonmaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful and not go to far. Limit yourself and if you really love someone, and i mean really love them and they really love you back you can both make the decision to wait and that will be worth the wait!
2006-06-27 11:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By keeping a sense of yourself, which you will always do. Trust your instinct whilst enjoying the love.
2006-06-27 11:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Chubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will triumph over us unless we'll be capable to realize that we put Love outside of ourselves, required something to have in order to be...
Love is something we are creating out of ourselves , not knowing that we are made from this stuff.
2006-06-27 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Oleg B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you presuppose that being in love requires a loss? Try to explore what you might gain and go from that position. :-) dadaboy
2006-06-27 12:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋