am so scared ppl sayz its real hurt what should i do and which is da best way to do easy and safe sex NO PAIN at all cuz i cant bear a PAIN :(( CRYBABY
2006-06-27 11:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by snow G 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sometimes you just have to deal with it for the first time...and maybe even second.
2006-06-27 11:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the honest truth the first time that I had sex it didn't hurt at all.....some woman break there hymens doing other things like riding horses bikes and yes sometimes masterbating.....but I dont know why it didn't hurt, but to tell you a positive it felt amazing (maybe not the first time, cuz we were both virgins and we didn't know what we were doing LOL) this is a lot of PI, but you asked a Personal ? so heres my answer. Focus on the positives and if it does hurt take it slow... theres no rush....sex is truly an amazing thing but only if you treat it the right way other wise it could be the most mortifying thing ever...be carful, make sure you loose it to the right person. and use lots of protection against disease and pregnancy if your not ready....plan all of this out before you have sex. If you do, you will feel more ready, and don't expect to much, the first time always sucks......:D It seems akward, But after a while and if it is with the right person, you will always remember, and it will be a great thing. Remember to communicate with your parterner....it will be wierd at first to talk about sex with him but it helps as well. good luck :D
cheyenne
2006-06-27 19:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chyhanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon your anatomy it might hurt a lot. after I was married it took a doctors advise, a prescription for a numbing agent, and 3 months time to consumate the first time. Some women are very small. It took nearly a year of several times a week before sexual intercourse was even remotely comfortable. Wait until marriage, its not worth it for a boyfriend fling!
2006-06-27 18:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think pain is what you need to worrying about right now. But it is what you asked about.
It may hurt. Or it may not.
It may hurt the 100th time. Or it may not.
Just depends on so many factors, none of which can be determined here. I will say the more worried you are about it hurting, the more likely it is to hurt.
2006-06-27 18:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by miss_feliciadl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it will hurt the first time you have sex cause woman have a layer of skin inside the vaginal that his the Hymen but once that has been broken it wont hurt any more trust me. and have safe sex there are allot of disease out there
2006-06-27 18:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by wounderwoman44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first couple of times it will hurt. After that it will be pleasure.
2006-06-27 19:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts the first time and maybe more times too but after a while it doesnt hurt anymore
2006-06-27 19:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts like hell and a couple of times after that ..just stay calm and relaxed and make sure that it's something you want to do. give you first time to some one special not just anyone
2006-06-27 18:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by kandi girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared, you just need to let your partner know to be gentle and slow and it won't hurt that bad, it does hurt but not really bad if you take it slow okay? if you need to talk let me know.
use protection!!!!!
2006-06-27 18:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts alittle but its not that bad.......it bleeds alittle 2......oh but the joy
2006-06-27 18:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋