I met this guy on a msn group and we chatted ONCE on messnger about our countrys. Then I quit messnger and started getting weird emails from him saying how much he loves me and wants to be married to me. I at frist just ingored him but he would not stop emailing! SO then I got mad and told him to stop but he just kept saying he loved me and even gave me his number!! I am scared to block him on email cuz he might hunt me down I am also scared to ingore him again. He just wont stop! I am 14 and he is 20. Now he has never said anything about sex or anything like that but I am still scared. Please help me!
2006-06-27 11:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
I told him nicely to leave me alone or I would tell the police and he said if thats what I want then he would leave me alone. So its ok now.
2006-06-28 07:13:00 · update #1
I'm going to assume you're american, tell him that in America a relationship between a 14 year old and a 20 year old is ILLEGAL, you're not even ALLOWED to marry until you're 18 (16 with your parents consent) and that if he doesn't leave you alone you will tell the authorities and have him arrested (you really can't tell the authorities and have him arrested as long as what he's doing is strictly over the internet but maybe he's dumb enough to believe it anyway). Honestly the first thing to do if you are truly scared of him is tell your parents, they won't be as nearly mad as you think they will, plus if he does start pestering you you can have them get involved (by the way if he gave you his phone number keep it, give it to your parents, in case he starts harassing you outside of the internet you can hand if over to the police). Your parents are really the best bet because they can help you and they will try to do everything they can to protect you. If he emails you again, make sure you show your parents every correspondence he sends you, although they might suggest that you DO ignore him. He's probably excited by the fact that you fear him, so the more you show him you're scared of him the more he likes it, so the best thing to do is to ignore him, block his emails and don't respond to his letters. As long as he doesn't have your full name, or your hometown, or your address, or phone number or the name of your school there's NO way to track you down, so don't worry about him, I'm sure he's just some perv on the other end and probably harmless to you. By the way regardless of whether he has threatened you or talked about sex you still have every right to be afraid, so don't let your fear embarass you. There truly are some scary people in this world!
2006-06-27 11:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kat__hleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't tell him a single thing about you or where you live and don't even drop little hints of where you are from. I think the best thing for you to do is get a new email adress and just try to ignore him. Don't respond to anymore of his emails you can read them but i suggest you just stay away and get a new email. Good luck and be safe!! Hope this helps.
2006-06-27 11:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to tell an adult. He is harrassing you. He should not be telling 14 year olds that he loves them. He should not be giving you his number. What he is doing is WRONG. Block him from emailing you again. Take the information he has given you, including the messages if you still have them, and tell an adult. Or call the local police department and tell them what he is doing. You will not be in trouble and they can and will do something about it.
Be safe.
2006-06-27 11:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mozzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Per chance is there any way you could change your user ID?
Maybe if you did, there would be no more emails from him. If you had a problem with him after that, then I would call the police IMMEDIATELY!
I also agree with those who have spoken out about not communicating your whereabouts to strangers. This is not wise for a young person to do.
2006-06-27 11:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by beagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why when mom and dad is not home, you shouldn't be sneaking around and lurking on the internet.
I swear, they should make those chips that electricute your brain (like in South Park) when you go near a computer for them kids below 18 years of age.
2006-06-27 11:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by HotRod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know, just don't answer his emails and threaten him, tell him you'll tell the police. Or just stay off the internet for a while. contact me if u like.
2006-06-27 11:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the police. He's a lunatic and a bully. He won't hunt you down. He only has power over you because you let him.
2006-06-27 11:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by DGR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Ask your parents for help.
2. Ask the police to intervene.
3. Get his address, then have his police intervene.
2006-06-27 11:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 20:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man is just in love :D. It's not he's fault But if you dont linke'em just tell'em to get lost. Be ruff and maybe he will stop it
2006-06-27 11:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋