So I met the man of my dreams about 5 months ago. He is really sweet and loves kids. I have a 10 month old that crys for him sometimes. Only problem my family hates him and tell me to leave him but I don't want to. His mom is sick in Cali. and he has asked me to go with him. I don't know what to do go with him or do what my family wants me to do? Someone please help
2006-06-27 11:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by Marilu R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do what your heart tells you.. If you love him and want to be with him then GO. Your family will always be your family, they will come around.
2006-06-27 11:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This depends greatly on your age.
If you are a grown woman and able to take care of yourself and your child, then go with your heart.
If you're not sure you could get a job and have something to fall back on if it falls apart, then rethink what you may be doing. If this is what the scenero is I suggest staying where you are (home) and either wait until he can get back to you or find someone else. These things happen.
And having it only been 10 months you've been with him it wont be all that bad.
But why does your family not like him? Is it anything major that you should have added into this question? Or is it minor and your family just doesnt like him for some strange reason!?
2006-06-28 13:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and how mature. Will you be able to get a job if you relocate? If you are a grown woman and know how to take care of yourself if things fall apart then go ahead and follow your heart.
2006-06-27 18:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go, if there are no red flags or anything and if your family is honestly being really unreasonable then go. If he is the love of your life and you're willing to do that then go for it!
2006-06-27 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋