I'm In college and I don't have many good friends I can really trust. Maybe that is why I hang with her or maybe I'm just too passive. I think she is nice to me because she doesn't have many people to go places with her and to copy my notes. Once I caught her making fun of me around some other girls. I'm tired of her and others trying to take advantage of my kindness. Recently, I found out we would be staying in the same dorm building. She knocked at my door at her own convience last semeter just because she was bored or wanted me to walk with her somewhere. I hid in my closet and told my roommate to tell her I was goin somewhere just to avoid her. She thinks she knows everything and more than me,even though I make better grades than her. She talks too much and she gets on my damn nerves. How do I avoid her and stop being dragged into things I don't want to do?
2006-06-27 11:25:41 · 12 answers · asked by ericaofgordon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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Tell that hefer No.
No notes especially!!!
Then find a good friend.Just go up and speak to someone and see what their doing.Keep your personal life personal and your social life social and you'll be fine.Hey i'm you're friend and I'm sure their are others just waiting.Get rid of the leech don't hide.Or at least tell her how you feel and actually be nice.Tell her you're hurt and friends dont do that crap.
2006-06-27 11:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time she asks you to hang out just tell her your not up to it....and if she asks to see your notes tell her your a little fed up with her not taking her own notes....maybe she'll be so offended by it she'll stop talking to you.....I know what you mean though....I don't have many friends either so anytime someone wants to start talking or hanging out Im always up for it to make a friend...but i usually find in the end they are nothing like me and have a hard time getting them out of my life....sounds mean, but you want to surround yourself with people that make you feel good and people you look forward to talking to and seeing.....if this girl is not one of them you have all the right in the world to cut your ties.....good luck with everything.
2006-06-27 11:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, you may want to not in case you do not innovations getting used. have you ever tried to have a intense talk about them about how their behaviour makes you sense? that would lead them to commence wondering and attempt to be a touch extra variety. you do not extremely favor acquaintances. anybody is mostly selfish and immature, in any case. it really is next to no longer obtainable to discover someone respectable to loaf round at the moment. in case you ditch them, do not bypass looking tremendous confusing for different acquaintances. in case you stumble on some, besides the undeniable fact that, that'll be good, yet be extra careful with whom you opt for to be round next time. if you're no longer continually keen to regulate to someone who by no skill complies with you, then you definately're probably a lot less in all probability to wind up with a set that are completely abusing you for his or her own advantages. on the bright section, they DO pay gas money. some people do not even furnish that. people at the moment, properly? Haha.
2016-11-15 08:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other people to hang out with. Everytime she wants to hang out make it known you have other plans. I had a "friend" like that and she went away after awhile....
2006-06-27 11:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rebeca O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm but gentle Tell her you don`t like to be abused and let her know gently that you don`t need frends like that.Instead suggest that you do things together that you both have interests in
2006-06-27 11:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by spatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just downright tell her "Im tired of you making fun of me behind my back, and taking advantage of me.Either you get nicer to me or we are finished." If shes not an idiot, shell get the message and treat you bettet. and if she doesnt, say goodbye and find real friends.
2006-06-27 11:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're busy all the time, and ingnore her. I did that to some of my so-called friends and they got the hint.
2006-06-27 11:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by MellyMel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got rid of this one girl by telling her that i was always busy she eventually got the idea. just don't make any time for her anymore.
2006-06-27 11:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stay away from you and you don't even have to feel guilty about it because if it was me i would smack her in her mouth for talking smack about me so instead of that (cause i don't want you to get kicked out of school) tell her to stay out yo face and away from you
2006-06-27 11:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by laylayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you dont want to hang around her
2006-06-27 11:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋