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:no one likes me
:I'm ugly
: want to get my period
: and bigger boobs

2006-06-27 11:20:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

37 answers

Pfft..
Dont bother.

Boobs are a waste, they attract the wrong type of man.

If you are over 14 and havent started menstrating yet, talk to an OB/GYN

2006-06-27 11:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by profit0004 5 · 3 0

Hey!!! I get where you're coming from. I didn't get boobs or my period until I was 16, almost 17. The doctor said it was because I was too active and when I slowed down, it would kick in. I was in track, gymnastics, and life-guarding all at the same time. I look back at pictures and think now, "Wow!! I had a nice body!!" Now I'm 25 and I wish I was that fit.
I had the same problems in school, thinking if I had boobs that guy I was crushing on would notice me.
I'm here to tell you now...You'll meet so many people in your life that you'll forget about him as you get older. There is a cute guy every place you go, but!! CAN HE CONNECT WITH YOU OR IS HE A WASTE OF YOUR TIME AND ENERGY?? DOES HE PUT AS MUCH AS YOU DO INTO IT, OR IS HE A ONE-WAY STREET??
Set standards for the guy you see yourself with in the future and don't ever compromise these standards for the "cute guy."
I may not have been "chased after" in school, but I got a good education. Here, later on in life, I'm an A\B cup and have guys coming up everywhere I go asking me out. I'm talking grocery stores, work, Walmart, the mechanics, the mall, gas stations, and so on.
Men are attracted to women who know themselves and are happy. So put on a smile and use it often every day. I do.
If you want to talk, go on and e-mail me.

2006-06-27 12:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom 1 · 0 0

If you think you are ugly, people will see you as ugly.

You have two options with the boob thing...either you'll get them naturally (and there is nothing you can do to change that) or you can get surgery (and you aren't old enough for that).

For the period thing, I would say just wait it out, but then I'm 27, about to be 28 and I STILL don't get mine unless I take medication to make me have one. I didn't find out why until many years of doctors had passed and I was finally diagnosed with PCOS. So I would say, wait it out until you turn 14...then see a doctor. And if you find some guy that likes a girl because she has a period...RUN!

2006-06-27 11:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by miss_feliciadl 2 · 0 0

Here's what you can expect to happen:

Five Stages of Puberty - Girls
1 Age Range: Usually 8-11
In Stage 1 there are no outside signs of development, but a girl's ovaries are enlarging and hormone production is beginning.
2 Age Range: Usually 8-14. Average: 11-12
The first sign is typically the beginning of breast growth, including "breast buds." A girl may also grow considerable height and weight. The first signs of pubic hair start out fine and straight, rather than curly.
3 Age Range: Usually 9-15. Average: 12-13
Breast growth continues, and pubic hair coarsens and becomes darker, but there still isn't a lot of it. Your body is still growing, and your vagina is enlarging and may begin to produce a clear or whitish discharge, which is a normal self-cleansing process. Some girls get their first menstrual periods late in this stage.
4 Age Range: Usually 10-16. Average: 13-14
Pubic hair growth takes on the triangular shape of adulthood, but doesn't quite cover the entire area. Underarm hair is likely to appear in this stage, as is menarche. Ovulation (release of egg cells) begins in some girls, but typically not in a regular monthly routine until Stage 5.
5 Age Range: Usually 12-19. Average: 15
This is the final stage of development, when a girl is physically an adult. Breast and pubic hair growth are complete, and your full height is usually attained by this point. Menstrual periods are well established, and ovulation occurs monthly.

Don't worry if you are a little slow, it can't be rushed and you have to wait for nature to takes its course. Actually a lot of women find having a period to be a nuisance, so don't wish too hard for it to start early.

2006-06-27 11:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0 0

I can tell you that confidence is the sexiest thing. Being popular needs confidence in yourself. To attract guys, you need to be confident as well. Emphasize what you DO have, instead of what you don't yet. Bigger boobs don't make you more attractive, they're just a plus. So dont think that tha'ts the first thing guys look for. Imagine if you only dated a guy because he had a big penis, but he was ugly, stupid and fat. Would you really like him then? If there are guys who only like girls cause of their boobs, they are weird perverts.
And, nobody can tell if you have your period or not! Just tell those who pressure you that you already have it, they'll never know!
Good luck and feel good about yourself!!!!

2006-06-27 13:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by noname 3 · 0 0

Don't rush it. We all go throught that "ugly stage" in life, and thankfully most of us grow out of it. Although I'm sure you're not ugly. Just wait a while, your period will come and you'll be asking for the days that you didn't have on back. It's a pain in the butt, and sometimes pelvis, that you don't want to "hurry up and get" so to say. Let your body do what it needs to do and leave it at that.

2006-06-27 11:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nille 2 · 0 0

You're not ugly! Everybody develops differently. Big boobs make your back hurt and with little ones you can see your toes! Haha (I know bout the little part!). And you don't want to get your period. You need to enjoy it before it comes -- it's awful! Just wait. It'll come when it wants to and only then! Try liking yourself so others will like you! It works too!

2006-06-27 12:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't worry about what boys think. Be yourself. Better to develop your mind and personality, and let nature take its course on the rest. Besides, most girls complain about their periods, and some people will complain about their back, or the saggy days of after-year, with big boobs.

Frankie says, "Relax!" and enjoy life. Even if it means starting with the little things.

2006-06-27 11:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by TL 3 · 0 0

Hi, I don't know how old you are, but believe me and if you believe in God, your body will develop when it's ready. If you want to be with guys who like you because you have big boobs then you like some very shallow guys, and they are no good. Believe me men like boobs, no matter what size they are, and they are hard on the back. Believe me I know personally.

2006-06-27 11:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Merrilly C 2 · 0 0

SWEETY,Don't be in a hurry to grow-up...when you start your period your boobs will start to develop and i'm sure people do like you...your not ugly,your just trying to grow-up to soon...the time will come before you know it...

Clowmy

2006-06-27 11:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone develops at different rate. I know it is hard, and I believe that society is partly to blame. You are lucky not to have periods yet. They're not fun and as far as your body image goes I wouldn't do anything drastic. Everything takes time. And if you are confident in yourself and know who you are your image won't be negative. People will like you for you.

2006-06-27 11:30:01 · answer #11 · answered by Erin E 2 · 0 0

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