I just made new friends, and altough i'M POSSITIVE about the friendships, i still have this nagging feeling that its all going to end soon. What should i do.....? HELP
2006-06-27 11:20:17 · 13 answers · asked by Dream@all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends are for loosers.
2006-06-27 11:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they end then they will end, there is nothing you will be able to do about that. Just enjoy the friendships. Friendships are very weird sometimes towards the start you can sometimes feel like you're walking on eggshells and not being able to feel comfortable but they are something that you have to put time into. Once you have a bond of talking and sharing experiences they will develop more. If you feel you are being the best friend you can be then that is all you can do! Good luck and relax in the knowledge that you are doing all you can.
2006-06-27 11:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vixen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what they have to say is one of the key cornerstones to a good friendship/relationship (which can be hard for some). While you're talking, find some common ground and plan some fun activities (something as simple as eating out at lunch, or having a sleepover can count). If, for some reason, things do start drifting, keep in touch with each other.
2006-06-27 11:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by CruelChick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can never say how or when friendship ends. it depends really on how u treat them.. meanwhile, u must forget that nagging feeling u hav and be urself! treasure every single moment u spend with them. u mustn't bother that it will end soon because if u invested love and devotion to that friendship, that will keep the tie between u.. u will earn the same of course and gain that true friendship. remember that true friends never part.. maybe in distance but never in the heart.
2006-06-27 11:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that there is a what you call a "better" friend. Friends you get along with may vary differently:
Friends for a lifetime which you have a deep connection even you don't see each other often. Friends who will be there for better or for worse, one who listens and empathises with you but can't be with you physically. Friends for companionship, gimmicks & leisure, for intellectual & ego boosting side. Friends who are there to help you when you are down but hates you when you are up. Friends who are there to use you for their personal interests and satisfactions. Friends who are clingy and will hang around wherever you go, but you never knew what they have inside them, etc. So, the best is to be at yourself always, don't need to impress anyone, you don't get & win true friends through pretensions & immitations, just be the real you. They will accept and like you as who you are and not as what you can give them, you don't need to be their servant or act like a clown, for them to like you or for you to win them. Giving it all may lead you to disappointment and heartaches, you may not know a person unless you both experience certain adversities or challenges in life, together or individually. Be nice to yourself first, so you can be a friend to everyone. From this you will get to know what kind of a friend they are for you. You'll know more or less how to categorize them. It is always nice to share thoughts, feelings and dreams to someone who is honest, sincere and reliable. Remember you can not expect others to have the same views and thoughts as yours.
2006-06-27 16:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by mystic angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're very lucky. all friendships are short lived.
That said, there are things you can do, if you wish.
Firstly, keep a secret.
Also,join in the slagging off of joint enemies, regardless of how you feel about them.
I'm sorry to be giving you this advise as it's not how I live my own life.
Personally, I just be myself.But that takes confidence, or the appearance of it.
Remember one thing :
You cannot please all the people all the time.
2006-06-27 11:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just try to do some stuff with your friend that you dont do now. and if tht nagging feeling doesnt go away, talk to your friend about the feeling, shell help you.
2006-06-27 11:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them over as much as possible. Care for your hurt friends and comfort sad ones. Spend all the free time you have with your friends. Buy them gifts, comfort them, never make them feel left out, Do whatever you can to help them. Remember you cannot live without your friends.
2006-06-27 11:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friendship is a two-way thing. You need to get out of it as much as you put in.
Be a good listener. Be there for them. Be yourself.
2006-06-27 11:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for your friends, listen to them, and ask them what they expect from a good friend
2006-06-27 11:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Eleanora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the way you are! If someone doesnt like you, there are enough others! cheers
2006-06-27 12:28:38 · answer #11 · answered by elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋