WHAT DO I DOOO??? NEED ADVICEE!!
2006-06-27 11:13:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shes horibble she pushes me around she yells at me..her boyfriend is the rudest person alive!! and then when shes in trouble she comes seeking answers from me!!
2006-06-27 11:29:27 · update #1
Get real!!! There are no written rules that state you have to be friends with an abuser of a relationship; because your moms are best friends!!
If that were the case this country (and world) would be filled with people using that excuse. If you don't like how you're being treated (especially if someone is putting their hands on you) in a relationship...end it!!
Don't be so naive to believe that you have to suffer at the expense of this bully. That's exactly what's going on...you're being bullied!! Tell her seeee yah wouldn't wanna be yah!!
2006-07-10 22:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your consideration for your mother's friendship with her mum proves you are mature a far cry from your friend and it makes you sad to see this.there may be a reason for her behavior and then again maybe not tell her gently starting of with her friendship with you then tell her gently but firmly that shes so much better off been the way u want her to be if this doesnt work rember the saying birds of a feather flock together if nuthin good is coming off your friendship dont u think its time to call it off for both of your own good.
2006-06-27 12:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, you don't want her lashing out on you! Do you really want to be around this person? If you are seen around this person do other people see you as mean just for being around in that group? You don't need to be friends with someone just because you think they are popular. Trust me people like that are never as confident as they seem and maybe just trouble! Beware.
TELL YOUR MOTHER!
2006-07-11 07:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Texas318-222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship between your mother & her mother doesn't have anything to do with you. If this person is mean to you she's not your friend. Let the parents have their thing and you keep away from the meanie. Your mother loves you and she'll want whats best for you.
2006-06-27 11:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful with the extra youthful adult adult males.. they are going to smash down and do the "i dont understand what i choose" speech and its freaking rediculous. im 25.. and my ex become 20. it become a terrible 6 months. the kissing cuddling and intercourse become super. yet ordinary skill for longterm? no longer something. yet once you think of there is a few thing there.. tell him the variety you experience and what he needs out of what you adult adult males are doing. that way you get a on the instant answer. yet dont be unhappy in case you purely finally end up as a cuddle pal.. or worse.. a F*** pal... carry on with adult adult males a 365 days youthful or circulate older.. they have extra ambition to be in some thing severe, relationship, maturitiy... ect..
2016-12-14 02:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she be your friend if she's mean to you? You guys just know each other because your mothers are best friends. It doesn't mean that you guys have to be friends. Don't let her push you around, because you're making it worse by letting her do that and she knows that she has control over you.
2006-07-11 10:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is hurting you then you should confront them no matter who ma is best friends. The situation isnt between them, it is between you and the girl. Tell her how you feel cause if you dont, she will continue to be mean.
2006-06-27 11:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she is no friend at all if she treats you like that just because your parents are friends doesnt mean u have to be. she has no right to push u around and if she does dont let her maybe if u got up some guts and told her like it is she wouuld change. des ur mom know the way she treats u? maybe she could say something to her mom. who knows? but dont let her treat u like her doormat.
2006-07-10 12:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she comes seeking answers from you tell her she will have to figure out her own way to get out of trouble until she starts treating you right, because when she doesn't need you she treats you like crap but when she needs you she comes begging, in other words she needs you when she is in a bad situation and the other times she pushes you around like she is your boss, tell her to figure her own way out of trouble until she starts treating you better and if she doesn't start treating you better you will stop giving her advice and stop being there when she needs you!!
2006-07-11 06:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by colombia129 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should've never let her get away with the way she treats you in the first place. Stop her in her tracks and let her know how it makes you feel. You don't have to take that kind of crap from her. And if she gets mad at you tell her to get over it.
2006-07-07 08:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋