hey i need an opnion....?

Question

my uncle(kevin) and my aunt(candy) have recently split up.... i want to know if you were in kevins position, if you would take her back.

this is everything she has done to him.....

she wont EVER get off her lazy duff and work she quits the same day she starts... she sits around and eats all day or she leaves a 10yr old boy in charge of his 2 sis. and his 2yr old bro. while she goes over to her gf's house (yes she has gone gay) she says that there split up but she was suppose to be watching the kids while kevin was at work and left the 10yr old to watch them while she goes to see her gf and even when she is there....she never pays ne atention to the kids... and ive even seen her abuse them.. would you put up with it???

hey my uncle is workin himself into an early grave supporting her fat lazy butt. he works over 12 hours then comes home to cook and watch the kids to the best of his ability while she "gets out of the house" im sick and tired of watchin those kids and their dad suffer at her hand, and if i had it my way..... he would get with someone that loves him and those kids b4 she comes to her senses.... the kids need love and attention, shes incapable of giving it.

Answer 1

HELL NO. tell youe uncle to take custody of those kids not becuz shes gay but she does not take care of them leaving them to a 10 yr old kid what is she smoking? so the answer is no

Answer 2

no and i would remove the children from the house and put them under better supervision. If she wants a girlfriend than she needs out of her marriage. Plus, she needs to learn how to work for herself, since obviously her work ethic is not a strong one. She might come crawling back in a year or so when she realizes how good she had it, but she won't make the changes she needs to be a better person until after that mark....

Answer 3

And your uncle? His faults? I assume that your uncle is blood related. Your looking at it from one side. I see her faults go for a few lines but your uncles will be just as equally bad. A poor judgement of character, often means you yourself have worst judgement.

He might love her, and he shouldnt' take her back and chances are she doesn't even want him. When a woman becomes interested in the same sex it is called emotional cheating. Woman cheat when they are unsatisfied about the relationship, men cheat when they are unsatisfied with sex.

Your uncle has his own faults sweetie. I doubt even if they did get back together it would work... its dysfunctional.

Answer 4

It doesn't sound like there is much to like about this woman, so why would your uncle take her back? I would wonder if she suffered post-partum depression after the 2 year olds were born. That might account for some of her problems.
The main concern should be about the children's safety. If she hurts them, then they need protection. You can call child protective services in your area for that.

Answer 5

Hell no I would not put up with it I would tell her how I felt and then I would laid down the law about her lazy way/child abuse ways, and if she did not change i would throw our relationship to the wind...Because there is someone else better out there for me.....

Answer 6

I think there is more to this story than you know or are telling us! First off, why would she have "gone gay?" Second, how do you know all this stuff? Sounds like a somewhat unhealthy relationship....get off it and get a life!
Good luck

Answer 7

yeah....that's the christian thing to do, girl. she' gonna have to do some serious self-reflecting with somebody there to help her self-reflect & YOU might have to be that person. be gentle. God Bless.