We both work full time, have chores that are never ending, I feel like I don't have time to keep up my looks, he goes out while I am always at home with the kids, I feel like an old house wife and I never have any energy!
2006-06-27 11:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by SoDamnFoxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In the ideal world the chores should be shared. Kids wear you out and taking care of the house does too. It would only be expected to find it as a chore too because that would be the time you have for yourself to relax. You should split the time between chores and going out. It is only fair. It is not Ok that he goes out and you are at home working your second job. You need to really get this point across.
2006-06-27 11:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all women at some point, feel like sex is just another chore. You need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Make him understand that he need to help more around the house. This sounds like my marriage and we are not together anymore. You cannot carry everything yourself. If he gets to go out, take a night for yourself and you go out. You will feel better. Good luck.
2006-06-27 21:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what having a family today is far too often like. Stress and exhaustion will take away sex drive, so it isn't a question of wrong or right. You need some help from grandparents, friends and have some tuff discussions with your husband which might eventually require a therapist's help.
2006-06-27 18:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt that way before to. The one think you really need to do is talk to him. Let him know that you need some time to relax and enjoy just breathing from time to time. He gets time away and you need yours also. And yes sex can be just a chore if you are aways on the go and on time to enjoy what comes from sex. Juat talk to him and then decied what stwps to take next
2006-06-27 18:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lay down the law. Going out and leaving you with the kids??? I would never let this slide. You need to share the responsiblity with him. If he goes out you should go out together. or at least have a babysitter so that both of you can have a fun night.
2006-06-27 18:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by joannaK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its about time he stay home and you go out! Go get all made up, go out with your friends have some drinks (or a lot of drinks) when you get home I'm sure you will want it then!
2006-06-27 18:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by jaded549us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋