...beg a woman if done as a means of letting her save face, avoid emberassment for her so that she can go on past denial with something that she wanted to do herself?
Can beggin be used in a positive manner when construed in such a way so as to facilitate the relationship when the woman has made a mistake and finds it hard to admit to it and move on. In other words, is beggin an effective means when used as a tool to overcome the ego only to achieve something that both parties want themselves anyway?
2006-06-27 10:52:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
How does one take care of it?
2006-06-27 11:06:51 · update #1
Ok, without specifics it is hard to really answer this.
I really like the way you want to help her avoid embarrassment and move past denial. Ego can be a huge issue for some people and if you are willing to put yours aside because you now it is an especially hard thing for her, then that is very noble of you. I think that if there is something that both of you want anyway then the best thing to do is to just talk about how the 2 of you can make that happen...but if the ego is standing in the way and you think "begging" will help you move past that then I think you should do it and move on.
I think maybe she should try getting some help for her ego.
Don't let yourself be used or abused, she should give a little too...especially if she did something wrong...but you know her best so do what you need to do to make her happy, she would do it for you.
Good Luck and I hope I understood your question.
2006-06-27 11:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by az 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's never ok for a man to beg a women, Dam dude grow some balls and tell the *****, you do what I say, I wear the pant's iin this relationship.lol No but on the reals I don't think a man or a women should beg a partner for anything if they really are partners then all you have to do is ask. The other person should understand.
2006-06-27 11:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by raider_way 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking she is wanting to give your her car and her friends will down on her because she did it and if she tells them you begged for it and could not turn you down. Well there is no saving face anyway. If you have to beg for it is something you are not welcome to have to start with and you should drop it. Sounds you are begging for sex to me. That is a no no. If you have to beg go somewhere where they want it as much as you do.
Begging to me is a way of trying to force someone to do something they don't want to do. I like most everyone else hate to be forced to do anything I don't want to. So shut up and stop begging. No one wants tobe around someone like that.
2006-06-27 11:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say What? Would you beg with your best friend?
That is called a discussion and decision to let the past stay in the past.
2006-06-27 11:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't recommend that because you can get taken advantage
of . I woulldn't play around like that you are playing with fire. Just
be yourself. I f the person doesn't like you for you, leave quick its not worth it.
2006-06-27 11:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Careerguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so.This could and probably would be a never ending problem. This problem should be properly taken care of now.
2006-06-27 11:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMMMM...........wow if she is going to make a fool of herself.... and you have to make a fool of yourself to get her not to make a fool of herself.... then it's definatly not worth it.
cheyenne
2006-06-27 11:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Chyhanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude grow some cahones and get off your computer and go get laid
2006-06-27 10:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by rugmasterstill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋