Should I ask my girlfriend to move in?

Question

We only knew eachother for a month in Philly before I moved to Hollywood. But now that I am here, all I can think of is her. I feel tempted to ask her to give up her job and move in with me. Should I be so bold or just wait for my feelings to go away?

Answer 1

maybe pay her way to visit, see if there are still sparks between you two. also - are you busy in hollywood, doing nothing most of the day will make u think of her more just because your bored. another good idea would to just talk to her more, 1 month is a short period of time to reallly get to know someone. moving in sounds a little too drastic at this point, u have to move a little slower i feel to have a real, solid relationship. with her living with you, it might become too serious too fast and cause the relationship to end bc of that.

Answer 2

A month is not enough time to know someone before moving in together. Why not try a long distance thing for a little while to get to know each other better ? You might just be thinking about her a lot because you are in a new place.

Answer 3

Honestly, I would wait it out a bit.
Even though she is on your mind a lot,
it may turn out to be a big mistake. Give it another
month or so to see if those same feeling are there.
If there really is love there and if it is really the right thing to do,
then giving it a little more time won't hurt anything.
If you ask her to give up everything for only a couple weeks
of bliss and it doesn't work out, then how would you feel?

Answer 4

I think a month isn't long enough. If you can picture yourself waking up to her every morning and if you know that she really likes you the way you like her, than I think you should wait for about another few months. If she loves you you'll still be together.( :

Answer 5

Well, if you ask and she does, you'll know she's really serious about you. But it is a lot to ask.