To my best recollection, I was around 8 years old when my incest began. It stopped when I was almost 14. This period of time is like looking through ripply water which is a common symptom of stress.
The violence altered my mental health, twisted my thoughts on personal relationships and for nearly 37 years I walked the path of self-destruction. Through a prayer and miracle I moved from victim to survivor.
One day I had the courage to name my experience out-loud. "Incest" That simple expression freed the destructive and dark secret I had held inside for decades.
Then over 5 years (and still counting) I detailed the experience by developing a website http://www.privatefamilymatter.com to help others who still suffer.
It is my goal to reach out to other who still suffer from past childhood trauma. I will help them acknowledge their past pain in order to begin the healing process.
I will always walk the healing path until the end of my life.
(I am downloading specific examples of early secret childhood trauma, as time allows. It is a very complex subject.
2006-06-27 12:08:39
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answered by Grandma Sue 1
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I was 26 years old, and I was living in the street, homeless. I looked into this shop and saw my face. All my life came flashing by and then the dreams I wanted in my life to happen.
I looked in that glass and I promised I'd run with the best in business and make it happen. That was the day I changed and ten years later, I am what I promised to be with a businesses all over the world.
It was just a decision away like everyone else's dreams. I made the decision at age of 25 and I kept going through all failures but 11 years later, it kicked off and it went so fast, that I wondered where the heck did all this power, abundance was hiding in begining.
2006-06-27 13:59:40
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answered by Adam Taha 4
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It didn't change forever in an instant; it was over the course of many years. I walked into a bible teaching church at about the age of 45. I am turning 55 this year. In those ten years, I have been in bible study and that is what changed my life. Things are very different than they used to be. I used to be confused and unwise. I now make good decisions, based on what the bible counsels me to do. I am no longer confused. Because of Jesus and God's promises, I am filled with joy and assurance.
2006-06-27 11:57:58
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answered by christian_lady_2001 5
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i was 16 when my life changed forever. i got married and had first child a month after the i do''s i love the kids but now i still have to deal with the ex hubby ughhhhhhh
2006-06-27 12:02:25
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answered by Anonymous
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my first dramatic life change was at 14 when i lost my virginity and i think it just kept changing from there, because again at 17 something happened and again at 19........I'm sure there's still more to come
2006-06-27 10:43:25
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answered by shmafo_04 2
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Actually,i'm quite young.
I'm only 15 but this is,by far, the toughest,life-changing year i've ever had.
2006-06-27 10:43:22
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answered by Musician 2
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My life changes drastically with each Epiphany I have, which is quite often.
2006-06-27 10:40:32
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answered by Anonymous
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20. that was when i went into the military
2006-06-27 10:43:39
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answered by brd_hef 1
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26 my daughter was born
2006-06-27 10:42:33
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answered by jon 3
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17 - I had a baby
2006-06-27 10:41:06
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answered by jaime 2
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