my mom's bf kids always hang around me and when we go to play video games they always use my legs as a way to help themselves down and it really ticks me off. when we are sitting on the couch and they wreslte they always end up toushing me. just like the other day i was sitting on couch watching hellriaser and the older one (about ten) kept playing footsie with me and/or touching my legs. when i was with my ex he always had his arm on my leg or his head and it always made me nervous and sometimes a little annoyed. is it normal for me not liking being touched by the people i hang around every day.
2006-06-27 10:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by citygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Very normal--many people don't like their personal space invaded. Unusual in the case of a lover though...maybe he wasn't the right one? Good luck.
2006-06-27 10:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every one is different some ppl like things others dont i hate when ppl come up and pat me on the back or ppl u have not seen in a long time wanna hug u i hate that some ppl like touches that others dont
2006-06-27 10:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone is different, my b/f does that to me all the time and it doesn't bother me. he hugs me, puts his arm around me, we hold hands, he puts his hand on my back and legs and it doesn't bother me, but i do remember my first "real" b/f (i was only 12 and he was 13 and wanted to do more than i wanted to if u know what i mean) so that got me scared for a while, but as soon as i found this b/f i was 14 and older so idk, idk how old you are but it is ok, i wouldn't worry about it too much, like i said everyone is different. hope this helped!
2006-06-27 10:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, I ate being touched on mp neck. I could just kill somebody who does that to me. I hate being kissed on my neck or on my pelvic area. It kinda sucks because It normally durring sexual exhibithions but I just wish I wasnt so damn tickleish.
2006-06-27 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a comfort zone and i hate when ppl get in my zone so i say its normal and you should let ppl know when they are in your zone so they lern to respect that.
2006-06-27 10:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by lil_bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 4 most girls it is. like me i hate 4 people 2 touch me or look at me.
2006-06-27 10:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you yes if they keep doing that move spots or just go do something else.
2006-06-27 10:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt like it if these kids keep touching me but i dont mind if my bf has his arms around me...
2006-06-27 10:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were ever molested as a kid, that explains why. If not, then hey its your business to be hands-held-free!
2006-06-27 10:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be like that and its not that big of a deal so yeah don't worry about it
good luck
2006-06-27 10:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋