i had a boyfriend 1 year ago , we still talked until last month he havent talked to me.so i started to have dreams about him.one of the dreams was that he was in a boat sailling away and i was at the pier yelling that i love him but he never heard me.the other dream was that he got a new girlfriend and i was so mad at him.Also (this is not a dream) i always think about him when someone is talking about marriage or something related to it .Can some one tell me why is this happening to me?I am not even going out with him but i just cant stop thinking about him.
2006-06-27 10:03:57 · 21 answers · asked by the reaper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i told myself to stop thinking about him but i can't is impossible
2006-06-27 10:04:54 · update #1
sure that he will return again and you are going to see him . He like you and you like him so he wanted to tell you I love you in any where even over the water and he wanted to call you with out any girl friend but you didn't underestood what he wanted to say .
2006-06-27 10:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dreams always mean the opposite remeber that so by him sialing away is meaning that hes gonna come back but because hes sailing its gonna take him a little longer than ud expect and him getting a new girlfriend just means he still thinks about you and if he does move on you will be happy for him all men want is for there ex to be ahppy for them dont be neg everything happens for a reason theres a reason why you shouldnt be together
2006-06-27 10:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by C I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still have it bad for your X. In the dreams it seems like he is ignoring you are not really aware of you. This probably means that he has moved on and is accepting that you two are no longer together. Eventually you will stop thinking about him, just give it time. Dreams are just our bodies way of working out problems.
2006-06-27 10:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its's possible as a matter of fact I have had a girlfriend for 5 years we just broke up about 3 days ago and it hurts but if it's not meant to be then it just is not meant to be. you are feeling the way you do because you really did care for that person, but sometimes you just have to let go, and as they say true love will always find itself, the dream you had to me means that he is ready to move on and explore what this world has to offer and sometimes that is best done alone.....
2006-06-27 10:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by anthony w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obsessed! Your dreams suggest that you are afraide that you are losing him. Deep down inside you know that he just isn't that into you but you refuse to accept it.
Telling yourself not to think about him = still thinking about him! Go out with friends, go on dates, find a hobby, work more hours, just keep yourself busy so that you don't have time to sit and dwell on him anymore. You need to move on!
2006-06-27 10:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recurrent, persistent, unwanted thoughts are known as obsessions. This guy has you mesmerized, even in your sleep ! If you want to read more about how to deal with this issue, visit :
http://understanding_ocd.tripod.com/ocd_obsessions.html
Your dreams are just a continuation of your waking thoughts about him. Good Luck !
2006-06-27 10:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing more than he's on your mind constantly.
That means he's on your sub-conscience as well. Thus the dreams. No biggie. When you become interested in another, the dreams will change.
2006-06-27 10:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hang out with other guys 2 get ur mind off of him and try 2 start a new relationship with another guy it works trust me plz went through same thing iight bye
2006-06-27 10:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, you are still very attached emotionally to this person. haven't let go and moved on for some reason. perhaps the relationship ended very quickly and with no resolution. keep him as a friend. maybe suggest to him that your thoughts are always with him. crazy as it sounds, it's true!!!
2006-06-27 10:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odviously your still in love with him or you wouldt have these dreams so I say tell him how you feel, whats there to lose?
2006-06-27 10:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋