2006-06-27 09:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa P 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Let me add that in every other aspect of our life we are happy and very attracted to one another, it's just that it's been a 1x a month thing for years now. And i'm desperate for some insight!
2006-06-27 10:35:24 · update #1
first i would get him medically checked to make sure he has no health problems - like diabetes, cardiovascular etc and ensure he has normal hormone levels
second how stressful is his life, how tired is he? everyone struggles to feel sexy when they are stressed and chronically tired - maybe a long holiday somewhere relaxing
thrid - visual visual and visual - guys are visual cretaures use that to your advantage - lots of sneeky sexy peeks, lingerie and lots of drawn out teasing foreplay
fourth - for some people once a month is normal libido - he might be one of those
fifth - if all else fails give him a quick kick to the b*lls - they will re focus his attention to his genitals!
2006-06-27 11:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 17⤊ 1⤋
It may not be a matter of "you" doing something. It could be he has a mental issue he isn't aware of or that he isn't dealing with. If it's not a mental issue it could be low testosterone. People with low testosterone can have low libidos. Once you figure out "why" he doesn't have the libido you would like then you can work on how to get it to where you want it to be. Be sure to make it known that it's not anybody's "fault".
2006-06-27 10:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cialis! although, if attraction is the problem then drugs wont help... i suggest u try looking best for him. put on some make up, go to the gym...maybe get a porno video...that should help...maybe u can get up to 2x or 3x a month.
2006-06-27 11:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by D. V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lavitra?
2006-06-27 10:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by 2muchcoffee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how low his libido...he could be normal but you are expecting more....couple usually not compatible in that department....
2006-06-27 10:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about getting him a man friend?
2006-06-27 10:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by dre7944 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now HE needs to try everything.
2006-06-27 10:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dondare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about raw wild honey? it's a remedy for whatever
2006-06-27 10:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesome
2006-06-27 10:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by rocket scientist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋