why does poeple get mad if a black man is with a white girl?

Question

why is it always a black and white thing

Answer 1

because the stupid racism, is the same as a Mexican guy with an American girl. who cares about the color or nation ? feeling is what you should care for.

Answer 2

I don't care if I see a brother with a white chick. I could care less. But the media over-hypes the Black Male/ White girl thing. I live in a mostly Black and Latino neighborhood but the blacks and Latinos don't get a long that well. All of my neighbors were pissed when they saw me dating and kissing on a Salvadorian guy. I think more people get mad when they see a black woman with a Non-black man.

Answer 3

It's really quite silly, isn't it?

I know that some white people don't approve of it because they still believe that blacks are below whites, that every black is a criminal, a lowlife, and to see one of their own kind with a black... well, they don't like it.

Racism is still a problem today, despite what so many people would like to believe. It's sure improved, yes, but it's still there, and it hurts me. A lot. I hate seeing my colored friends put down, simply because of their skincolor. It really, truely kills me. When a black friend of mine went into a doctor's office a month or two ago, he was the only one there who wasn't white - people moved to the other side of the waiting room so that they wouldn't have to sit near him. There was no need for that. What did they expect him to do - steal from them? He happens to be one of the most beautiful people I know, and one of the few genuine friends I have. But they didn't see that - all they needed was to see the color of his skin, and he was, in their minds, condemned. Their actions spoke the words they were too cowardly to say - "you are black, you are filth, and you're not worthy to even sit beside me." While he told me about it, he smiled, and tried to make light of it by joking about how they must have been afraid to catch "the black disease", but I knew that it hurt him, and I hurt with him. It's not right, it will never be right.

I'll never understand why people are so stuck on color. There is no explaination for it, except that this fallen world is stuck on superficialities such as appearance, and sees "white" and "black" instead of a a beautiful, special human being, who has as much right as anyone to everything the world has to offer, no matter what they happen to look like. That includes being with the person you love.

There is no problem with whites and blacks being together - or indians and blacks, or hispanics and whites. The problem is people who are afraid of the unfamiliar, or are too hung up on prejudice to even think about whether or not those two people might really have feelings for each other, and honor that.

I applaud anyone who is willing to look beyond color, and love what they see.

Answer 4

Well, for black women's anger I know it's because a lot of black men are unfortunately involved with drugs or gangs, so they don't want them "wasted" on the white girls. Watch that movie "Save the Last Dance". For whites, I guess the anger is that black men have "the nerve" to date a white. It's all stupid either way, race should not be an issue in the educated public.

Answer 5

I don't get mad but I think some sistas do becasue they feel like they aren't good enough for him. So he went out to find a white girl. Some black man put sisita's through hell then they get some money a good job and they go get a white gril. That doens't sit to well with Black women who love their black men. Me personally I watched my pops go thru two divorces with two black wives. Just because your the same race doensn't give you and advanrtage on the relationship. You just gottat do what you do.

Answer 6

black women get mad because they figure there are so few good black men out there to begin with that us white women shouldn't be taking any. or something to that effect.
hey, it's not what I believe. I have heard this from more than one black woman. A black dude asked me out once and my co-worker got really pissed off at me (I'm white she's black) for this very reason.

In my own humble opinion,
I just think everyone should just MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.
This very simple philosophy would solve about 90% of the world's problems, I think.

Answer 7

They're not jealous. But a LOT of black men go out of their way to get a WHITE woman, when it shouldn't matter what color she is! And yes, lots of black men date white girls for an ego boost for themselves like they have a vanilla trophy. (That is the truth - it's not ignorant.) I think lots of people get mad because dating a woman just because she's white is wrong, too.

Answer 8

It really depends on the person. If they harbour strong ideas about inter-racial relationships, they will not appreciate a 'black' man with a 'white' girl. Also, I have a close friend with this same issue. The biggest problem she has to contend with is that the 'black' girls refuse to date 'white' men and purposely cause problems for her. They feel like she is taking one of their men.

Answer 9

I personally do not appreciate the bitches saying that we are jealous. who wants to be jealous of people who have no *** at all. And 4 Meredith I dont know what u meant by blk women giving u a hard time but it didn't sound to good. Yall really betta watch what yall say cause yall be insulting ppl. We aint Jealous. we just wanna know why they want a flatback when they can have all dis *** right here!

Answer 10

its only the white racists and black women with bad attitude