I saw my cousin having sex with a guy, they's both boys, should I tell my aunt(his mother)?

Answer 1

Keep this as a secret between your cousion and yourself. Not everyone is open minded about homosexuality. If straight people (like I am) have the right to commit sexual actions with their desired partner then bisexuals as well as homosexuals have the same right. We all have same rights.

Answer 2

No, you shouldn't tell his mother.

If you really feel the need to talk about it, you need to talk to him. Pick a private time and place where you can talk quietly. Don't accuse and don't preach. Let him know what you saw and what your concerns are.

And, here's a thought: you might ask him if he has any concerns that he'd like to talk about. You may find that you just made your relationship with your cousin closer by being his friend. Doesn't mean you have to approve (or disapprove) just be there. And make sure he knows about safer sex and how to get and use condoms. Never too soon!

Answer 3

One define boy. If the boy is older than 13-16 then he is most likely experimenting. If he is over say age 16 then he most likely knows he is gay and enjoying his life and you have no business in it.

Telling his aunt will only create a barrier between you and him, and most likely him and his aunt. Especially if she doesn't accept him. This may even cause him to leave home. Look at the whole situation from the point of what consequence may come from your actions, not is. If he is OUTED by you and not ready he may run away or commit suicide. At very least he may never forgive you for your actions.

Answer 4

What are you people saying if he is a child thats when most things happen, I was 12 or 13 my first time. I could see if it was with older guy over 18 and he is younger than i would tell, but no. If i was you I would talk to your cuzin about it and leave it at that. He will always remember you forever and thank you later when comes out if he is gay.

Answer 5

If he's a child, tell his mother.

If he's an adult, educate him about how gay sex can cut 30 years off his life expectancy.

Educate him on how gay sex puts people at much greater risk for AIDS and a whole host of other deadly diseases -- including hepatitis, HPV, and anal cancer (which is almost unheard-of among straight men).

Answer 6

Does this cousin know that you seen him. If not leave it alone. If he does confront him and tell him how it made you feel. And what should you do. Frankly its up to your cousin to tell his mom. I know a friend that told his mom and they aren't talking right now. But, he is still my friend and i love him regardless of his choices.

Answer 7

NO, NO. NO! U could mess up the boy's life. Not to mention u guy's relationship and him and his mom's relationship. Heck he might not ever talk to u again. He'll let her know when HE's ready.

Answer 8

No, you should let him come out to his mother on his own rather than have his family members be non supportive of his choice.

Answer 9

well i think you should talk to your cousin... tell him its better to tell ppl you gay then to hold it in... it isn't anything to be ashamed of and if his own mother doesn't support that then wow... when you become a mother your supposed to love your child no matter what if they gay, lesbian, straight, murdered someone, or robbed a bank you still deep down love them!

Answer 10

No. Let him "come-out" when he's ready. Maybe he was just experimenting ... maybe it was just a manly girl. If you tell the aunt, it could really traumatize the kid.