Okay...My babys mother has been irregular in taking time to take our son on the weekends like we had agreed apon when I took custody. It gets to the point that I make plans on the weekends with my current girlfriend with the belief that my ex is taking our son but at the last second she says she won't pick him up and isnt taking him. This seems to happen when she gets involved with a new boyfriend. This is stressing my relationship with my current GF because it feels like my ex controls our life and not to mention that my ex needs to play a bigger role in our sons life. I feel like I have nowhere to turn because my family can't take my son on the weekends, they all work. My son suffers because he knows on the weekends is the time he gets to see his mom and its hard to tell a 3yr old that hes not going to see his mom this weekend because she made other plans. I plan on marrying my GF someday but its hard when your ex has so much influence on my life. What can I do???
2006-06-27 09:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by SAGE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have to add that I am not the Mom too, his mom is alive.
Finding a sitter at the last second is impossible and my family works weekends too. I dont go out oftern but it would be nice to plan a weekend with my GF without having to cancel every time I plan something with her.
2006-06-27 10:55:18 · update #1
Just live your life and you dont need your ex in your life or your sons especially since she's causing problems. Just try to change around your plans to make life better for you , your son and girlfriend. Trust me, if she soesn't want anything to do with her son, her son doesn't need to have anything with her.
2006-06-27 09:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by dance_wazup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be that it's all part of her plan to keep you from marrying your current gf. If your custody is through a court then take her a** to court and demand that a judge make her follow the rules. Now granted there are exceptions for whatever reason (sick, vacation, work) but your ex would probably hate to do time behind something petty as not taking your son. Hope this helps. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-27 09:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well "Captain" you don't sound like much of a group leader! You took on a huge responsibility when you were awardered placement of your son. Your the mom and dad now. I know you want a personal life and you deserve it but your ex's irresponsibility that is going to make it alot more difficult. Work around it... even if it means getting a sitter only every other weekend. Best of luck.
2006-06-27 09:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by spawn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋