2006-06-27 09:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by lrybio2006 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My first suggestion to you is to really think about that request. It can cause alot of damage to your relatioship if you and your man aren't on the same page about what you expect to happen from this. You both have to know that it is what it is and when it's over it's really over. You need to find a person who won't want to take it any farther than the threesome. A rational person who understands the nature of sex. My second suggestion would be to contact me. I'm down.
2006-06-27 09:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good luck with this. Single bi females are often looked at as "Unicorns" to swingers. There are not very many single women out there who are openly looking to be with a couple. And those who are, mostly have their choices of who they want to be with b/c they know that they are so rare.
So, here's three things we recommend, with drawbacks for each.
Check out the local bar scene. Often there will be single women there who will be dancing and drinking. Let your guy sit on the side while you dance and flirt with her. As the night progresses, let whatever happens, happen. This is difficult b/c often times single women will be travelling with a group of friends. This group of friends is difficult to join into. Then it's difficult to get this girl to go back home/hotel. (Ask him how difficult it is to pick up women. LOL)
Another idea is to search your circle of friends. This has worked for us twice. The person that you confront about this has to be very trustworthy and can keep a secret (you are asking them to sleep with you). Try dropping hints about it and see how they react to things. If they are open minded about things, continue to open them to ideas till you feel the time is right, then tell them about your idea. If they like your idea, well, you can figure it out from here. The problem with this idea is if your friend tells another friend, who tells another friend, who knows family, this could get ugly.
The last idea is to try contacting swingers through websites, groups or clubs. This works well because you don't have to deal with the stress of dealing with friends or "picking up" a woman. But, there are drawbacks. If you want your husband to join in, then be prepared for the other husband to join in if it's another couple. Also, if the plan is to just have Female/Female interaction and your hubby wants to watch, the other husband will probably want to watch too.
Hope this helps. If you need more advice, feel free to contact us offline.
2006-06-27 11:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several good web sites geared toward swinging. You may want to check some of those out. One that wasn't mentioned yet is www.swinglifestyles.com.
Good luck, as someone else posted earlier. Finding a single woman who is into swinging is like finding a unicorn. But, there are many couples out there and with luck you might find someone to help fulfill a fantasy.
2006-06-27 14:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Miss_Behavin98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody said that you should find a bisexaul for a threesome which is a load of crap because that's a sterotype. Bisexaul women are not some play toy for a straight couple!! Don't mess with them.
2006-06-27 16:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try www.craigslist.org in your city. Once you get there pick your city on the right and then you'll see a section on the left-Personals for all kinds of hook ups and variations.
2006-06-27 09:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by nanasauntie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....try www.adultfriendfinder.com
2006-06-27 09:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a phone sex line and meet some bi women
2006-06-27 09:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Charmed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the personals, not here, pls.
2006-06-27 09:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋